Peter approached Jesus and asked him,
“Lord, if my brother sins against me, how often must I forgive him? As many as
seven times?” Jesus answered, “I say to you, not seven times but seventy-seven
times. That is why the Kingdom of heaven may be likened to a king who decided
to settle accounts with his servants.
When he began the accounting, a debtor was
brought before him who owed him a huge amount. Since he had no way of paying it
back, his master ordered him to be sold, along with his wife, his children, and
all his property, in payment of the debt. At that, the servant fell down, did
him homage, and said, ‘Be patient with me, and I will pay you back in full.’
Moved with compassion the master of that
servant let him go and forgave him the loan. When that servant had left, he
found one of his fellow servants who owed him a much smaller amount. He seized
him and started to choke him, demanding, ‘Pay back what you owe.’ Falling to
his knees, his fellow servant begged him, ‘Be patient with me, and I will pay
you back.’ But he refused. Instead, he had him put in prison until he paid back
the debt.
Now when his fellow servants saw what had
happened, they were deeply disturbed, and went to their master and reported the
whole affair. His master summoned him and said to him, ‘You wicked servant!
I forgave you your entire debt because you
begged me to. Should you not have had pity on your fellow servant, as I had
pity on you?’ Then in anger his master handed him over to the torturers until
he should pay back the whole debt. So will my heavenly Father do to you, unless
each of you forgives your brother from your heart.”
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Reflection:
The story is told about an unforgiving man
who would always harbor resentment towards those who have hurt him. Be
unforgiving was always his attitude towards those who did him wrong until he
had a heart attack. After he recovered from his sickness, he decided not to keep
any resentment anymore and he subsequently felt like a bird freed from a
cage.
Is it normal for us to harbor
resentment/anger? Yes of course for we are humans with emotions. But we must
not let our anger/resentment control us by allowing it safe harbor in our
hearts for so long. Therefore, after that moment wherein we let our feeling of
resentment control us let us quickly allow Jesus’ teaching on forgiveness to
take over our selfish and destructive feelings.
In the gospel Peter asked Jesus,
"Lord, if my brother sins against me, how often must I forgive? As many as
seven times?" Jesus answered, "I say to you, not seven times
but seventy-seven times (Matthew 18:21-22).
This is a very simple yet very effective
teaching about forgiveness for us from Jesus. In other words the Lord is saying
to us that we should always be forgiving. It’s normal for us to be hurt but let
us not allow these hurtful feelings to control and to wound us permanently.
Hence, we can only be freed from the vicious control of anger which by the way
comes from the devil, if we forgive those who have hurt us.
What if we don’t forgive? We are only
hurting ourselves if we don’t forgive and we only put ourselves in an invisible
prison cell called unforgiveness. And then this unforgiveness will sooner or
later bring us down until we self-destruct.
What if we follow Jesus’ teaching on
forgiveness, how would we feel? We feel light and free and we have no
burden in our hearts. Don’t we all want to feel light, to feel free and without
any burdens and hurtful feelings in our hearts?
There are two options before us: To follow
Jesus’ teaching on infinite forgiveness or we continue to punish and burden
ourselves by unforgiveness. The wisdom filled choice is to follow Jesus’
teaching. – Marino J. Dasmarinas