Ang Mabuting Balita para Marso 4, Sabado sa Unang Linggo ng Apatnapung Araw na Paghahanda: Mateo 5:43-48

Mabuting Balita: Mateo 5:43-48

Noong panahong iyon, sinabi ni Hesus sa kanyang mga alagad, “Narinig na ninyong sinabi, ‘Ibigin mo ang iyong kaibigan at kapootan mo ang iyong kaaway.’ Ngunit ito naman sabi ko: ibigin ninyo ang mga umuusig sa inyo, upang kayo’y maging tunay na anak ng inyong Amang nasa langit. Sapagkat pinasisikat niya ang araw sa masasama at sa mabubuti, at pinapapatak niya ang ulan sa mga banal at sa mga makasalanan.  

Kung ang mga umiibig sa inyo ang siya lamang ninyo iibigin, ano pang gantimpala ang inyong hihintayin? Hindi ba’t ginagawa rin ito ng mga publikano? At kung ang binabati lamang ninyo’y ang inyong mga kapatid, ano ang nagawa ninyong higit kaysa iba? Ginagawa rin iyon ng mga Hentil! Kaya, dapat kayong maging ganap, gaya ng inyong Amang nasa Langit.”  

Reflection for March 3, Friday of the First Week of Lent: Matthew 5:20-26

Gospel: Matthew 5:20-26

Jesus said to his disciples: “I tell you, unless your righteousness surpasses that of the scribes and Pharisees, you will not enter into the Kingdom of heaven.   

“You have heard that it was said to your ancestors, You shall not kill; and whoever kills will be liable to judgment. But I say to you, whoever is angry with his brother will be liable to judgment, and whoever says to his brother, ‘Raqa,’ will be answerable to the Sanhedrin, and whoever says, ‘You fool,’ will be liable to fiery Gehenna.   

Therefore, if you bring your gift to the altar, and there recall that your brother has anything against you, leave your gift there at the altar, go first and be reconciled with your brother, and then come and offer your gift. Settle with your opponent quickly while on the way to court with him. Otherwise your opponent will hand you over to the judge, and the judge will hand you over to the guard, and you will be thrown into prison. Amen, I say to you, you will not be released until you have paid the last penny.”

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Reflection:

What is the cure for anger? It’s humility.  

Nobody is perfect once in a while we get angry but do we have the humility to make amends after we have injured someone with our arrogance? Only a gentle and humble person would have the courage to say I’m sorry or to apologize.  

But to say I’m sorry is not easy to do, only a humble person would summon enough courage to say this magic words that have healed so many disputes and arguments. In our gospel for today, Jesus gives us teaching about anger.    

Jesus tells us that we must be reconciled with those whom we have differences and had feelings of enmity. But why do we get angry in the first place? We get angry because we lack humility, we get angry because we have this superiority complex against our fellowmen.    

It’s only humility that can deescalate and eventually eliminate our anger. Let us therefore pray for the grace of humility, let us ask God the Holy Spirit to give it to us. The best test of humility is our willingness to apologize and to admit our mistakes before those whom we have hurt.  – Marino J. Dasmarinas

Ang Mabuting Balita para Marso 3, Biyernes sa Unang Linggo ng Apatnapung Araw na Paghahanda: Mateo 5:20-26

Mabuting Balita: Mateo 5:20-26

Noong panahong iyon, sinabi ni Hesus sa kanyang mga alagad, “Sinasabi ko sa inyo: kung ang pagsunod ninyo sa kalooban ng Diyos ay tulad lamang ng pagsunod ng mga eskriba at mga Pariseo, hindi kayo makapapasok sa kaharian ng Diyos.”  

“Narinig ninyo na noong una’y inutos sa mga tao, ‘Huwag kang papatay; ang sinumang makamatay ay mananagot sa hukuman.’ Ngunit ngayo’y sinasabi ko sa inyo: ang mapoot sa kanyang kapatid ay mananagot sa hukuman; ang humamak sa kanyang kapatid ay mananagot sa Sanedrin, at sinumang magsabi sa kanyang kapatid ‘ulol ka!’ ay mapapasaapoy ng impiyero.  

Kaya’t kung naghahandog ka sa Diyos, at maalaala mo na may sama ng loob sa iyo ang kapatid mo, iwan mo muna ang iyong handog sa harap ng dambana at makipagkasundo ka sa kanya. Saka ka magbalik at maghandog sa Diyos. “Kung may magsakdal laban sa iyo sa hukuman, makipag-ayos ka sa kanya habang may panahon, bago ka niya iharap sa hukom. At kung hindi’y ibibigay ka niya sa hukom, na magbibigay naman sa iyo ng tanod, at ikaw ay mabibilanggo. Sinasabi ko sa iyo: hindi ka makalalabas doon hangga’t hindi mo nababayaran ang kahuli-hulihang kusing.”

Reflection for March 2, Thursday of the First Week of Lent: Matthew 7:7-12

Gospel: Matthew 7:7-12

Jesus said to his disciples: “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks, receives; and the one who seeks, finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened.  

Which one of you would hand his son a stone when he asked for a loaf of bread, or a snake when he asked for a fish? If you then, who are wicked, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your heavenly Father give good things to those who ask him. 

“Do to others whatever you would have them do to you. This is the law and the prophets.”

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Reflection:

Do you sometimes feel helpless and burdened by so many problems? All of us go through these life episodes, some of us are able to survive and some are not. 

In our gospel for today, Jesus gives us a recipe so that we would be able to survive whatever trials and problems that we will be going through in our lives. Jesus tells us:   “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. These are comforting and healing words for all of us if only we believe and take these words of Jesus into our hearts.  

Let us therefore have a permanent daily time with Jesus. Since it’s only through this daily time with Him that we could automatically go to Him to ask for His healing and comfort. The moment we start to incorporate Jesus in our daily lives we then could be assured that we will now be able to survive our problems and worries.  

Let us endeavor to get closer to Jesus in everyday of our lives. Let us ask Him for help and for guidance. Let us detach ourselves from our many worldly attachments for the reason that this is what hinders us to get closer to Jesus. And last but certainly not the least, let us all exert an effort to leave behind our relationship with sin. – Marino J. Dasmarinas

Ang Mabuting Balita para Marso 2, Huwebes sa Unang Linggo ng Apatnapung Araw na Paghahanda: Mateo 7:7-12

Mabuting Balita: Mateo 7:7-12

Noong panahong iyon, sinabi ni Hesus sa kanyang mga alagad, “Humingi kayo, at kayo’y bibigyan; humanap kayo, at kayo’y makasusumpong; kumatok kayo, at ang pinto’y bubuksan para sa inyo. Sapagkat tumatanggap ang bawat humihingi, nakasusumpong ang bawat humahanap, at binubuksan ang pinto sa bawat kumakatok.  

Bibigyan ba ninyo ng batos ang inyong anak kung humihingi ng tinapay? Bibigyan ba ninyo siya ng ahas kung humihingi ng isda? Kung kayo na masasama, ay marunong magbigay ng mabubuting bagay sa inyong mga anak, gaano pa kaya ang inyong Amang nasa langit? Ibibigay niya ang mabubuting bagay sa mga humihingi sa kanya!  

“Kaya gawin ninyo sa inyong kapwa ang ibig ninyong gawin nila sa inyo. Ito ang kahulugan ng Kautusan ni Moises at ng turo ng mga propeta.”

Reflection for March 1, Wednesday of the First Week of Lent: Luke 11:29-32

Gospel: Luke 11:29-32

While still more people gathered in the crowd, Jesus said to them, “This generation is an evil generation; it seeks a sign, but no sign will be given it, except the sign of Jonah. Just as Jonah became a sign to the Ninevites, so will the Son of Man be to this generation.   

At the judgment the queen of the south will rise with the men of this generation and she will condemn them, because she came from the ends of the earth to hear the wisdom of Solomon, and there is something greater than Solomon here.  

At the judgment the men of Nineveh will arise with this generation and condemn it, because at the preaching of Jonah they repented, and there is something greater than Jonah here.”

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Reflection:

Why do we meet or are acquainted with good and Godly people? It’s for a good reason they don’t just come into our lives, it’s always for a good reason. 

For example, if you become friends with a good and Godly person. God led you to this person for you to become good and godly also. You did not become friends with him/her for you to be bad. Jesus sent this person to you so that you’ll be converted this is always the reason.  

Some of us may listen or let this Godly friend influence us thus we become good and godly as well. But unfortunately this is not always the scenario because there are many who don’t care to listen. No matter how many times God calls them to renewal they will really not listen.  

Jonah, in our gospel was sent by God to the people of Nineveh to call for their repentance.  And they listened to him that’s why God spared them from punishment. After Jonah there were many more prophets who were sent by God they called also for conversion.   

Until Jesus came, many listened to Jesus call for repentance and conversion. But sad to say many did not listen also. There was hardness in their hearts, they ignored Jesus they instead continued to embrace sin.   

Jesus call of repentance did not stop with the people of His time. The Lord’s call for repentance flows like an endless stream up to this very moment and it is now addressed to us – Marino J. Dasmarinas

Reflection for February 28, Tuesday of the First Week of Lent: Matthew 6:7-15

Gospel: Matthew 6:7-15

Jesus said to his disciples: “In praying, do not babble like the pagans, who think that they will be heard because of their many words. Do not be like them. Your Father knows what you need before you ask him.  

“This is how you are to pray: ‘Our Father who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name, thy Kingdom come, thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread; and forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.’ “If you forgive others their transgressions, your heavenly Father will forgive you. But if you do not forgive others, neither will your Father forgive your transgressions.”

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Reflection:

What is the prayer that reaches God? Its prayer that comes from the heart and a prayer made in the silence of our heart. It could be a long or short prayer that comes straight from our heart.  

Jesus gives us the perfect prayer called the Our Father. This is called the perfect prayer because it comes from Him and Jesus gave it to us. Jesus Himself taught us to pray it.  Do we pray this with our hearts or we simply pray it with our minds wandering elsewhere?  

Let us recall when we are at Holy Mass, how do we pray the Our Father or the Lord’s Prayer? Do we pray it with closed eyes or with open eyes? The best way to pray this perfect prayer is with closed eyes.  Because when we close our eyes we shut ourselves from any form of distraction thus we are able to focus.      

Deep in our hearts we seek to connect with God thru this prayer and thru our personal prayers as well. Because we hunger and thirst for God most especially when we pass through moments of loneliness, trial and disillusionment.  Why? Because God alone gives meaning to our life.   - Marino J. Dasmarinas 

Ang Mabuting Balita para Pebrero 28, Martes sa Unang Linggo ng Apatnapung Araw na Paghahanda: Mateo 6:7-15

Mabuting Balita: Mateo 6:7-15

Noong panahong iyon, sinabi ni Hesus sa kanyang mga alagad, "Sa pananalangin ninyo'y huwag kayong gagamit ng napakaraming salita, gaya ng ginagawa ng mga Hentil. Ang akala nila'y pakikinggan sila ng Diyos dahil sa dami ng kanilang salita. Huwag ninyo silang tutularan. Sapagkat alam na ng inyong Ama ang inyong kinakailangan bago pa ninyo hingin sa kanya.  

Ganito kayo mananalangin: 'Ama naming nasa langit, Sambahin nawa ang pangalan mo. Ikaw nawa ang maghari sa amin, Sundin nawa ang iyong kalooban dito sa lupa tulad ng sa langit. Bigyan mo kami ng pagkaing kailangan namin sa araw na ito; At patawarin mo kami sa aming mga kasalanan, Tulad ng aming pagpapatawad sa mga nagkakasala sa amin. At huwag mo kaming iharap sa mahigpit na pagsubok, Kundi ilayo mo kami sa Masama!  

Sapagkat iyo ang kaharian at ang kapangyarihan at ang kapurihan, magpakailanman! Amen.' Sapagkat kung pinatatawad ninyo ang mga nagkakasala sa inyo, patatawarin din kayo ng inyong Amang nasa langit. Ngunit kung hindi ninyo pinatatawad ang mga nagkakasala sa inyo, hindi rin kayo patatawarin ng inyong Ama."

Reflection for February 27, Monday of the First Week of Lent: Matthew 25:31-46

Gospel: Matthew 25:31-46

Jesus said to his disciples: "When the Son of Man comes in his glory, and all the angels with him, he will sit upon his glorious throne, and all the nations will be assembled before him. And he will separate them one from another, as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. He will place the sheep on his right and the goats on his left.  

Then the king will say to those on his right, 'Come, you who are blessed by my Father. Inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world. For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, a stranger and you welcomed me, naked and you clothed me, ill and you cared for me, in prison and you visited me.'  

Then the righteous will answer him and say, 'Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you drink? When did we see you a stranger and welcome you, or naked and clothe you? When did we see you ill or in prison, and visit you?' And the king will say to them in reply, 'Amen, I say to you, whatever you did for one of the least brothers of mine, you did for me.'  

Then he will say to those on his left, 'Depart from me, you accursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels. For I was hungry and you gave me no food, I was thirsty and you gave me no drink, a stranger and you gave me no welcome, naked and you gave me no clothing, ill and in prison, and you did not care for me.'  

Then they will answer and say, 'Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or naked or ill or in prison, and not minister to your needs?' He will answer them, 'Amen, I say to you, what you did not do for one of these least ones, you did not do for me.' And these will go off to eternal punishment, but the righteous to eternal life."

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Reflection:

What do you feel when you sincerely help the needy, poor and in need? You will feel indescribable joy in your heart. Who give you this feeling of indescribable joyfulness? It’s Jesus none other than Jesus for the simple reason that what you do to them you do to Him as well.   

We have in our gospel two groups of people: The group on the right side and the one on the left side.  The group of people on the right side are those who helped the poor, in prison, needy and the like. Those on the left side are those who were insensitive to their needs.  Of course the Good Lord favored those at His right side, so the Lord gave them eternal life. And those who were on His left side, the Lord gave eternal punishment.  

This gospel invites us to reflect on how we relate with the poor and less fortunate. Let us be sensitive and look around. We may have relatives or neighbors who are not as affluent as we are. Many of us are carried away by the riches that we have that we tend to forget the less fortunate and the poor.  

This lent is a wake-up call for all of us. We must be concerned with their welfare, a concern that is real and not just for show. A concern that is given flesh by actually helping the less fortunate without any fanfare and publicity. Because the Lord knows everything anyway. – Marino J. Dasmarinas

Ang Mabuting Balita para Pebrero 27, Lunes sa Unang Linggo ng Apatnapung Araw na Paghahanda: Mateo 25:31-46

Mabuting Balita: Mateo 25:31-46

Noong panahong iyon sinabi ni Jesus sa kanyang mga alagad: Darating ang Anak ng Tao bilang Hari, kasama ang lahat ng anghel, at luluklok sa kanyang maringal na trono. Sa panahong iyon, matitipon sa harapan niya ang lahat ng tao. Sila’y pagbubukud-bukurin niya, tulad ng ginagawa ng pastol sa mga tupa at mga kambing.  

 Ilalagay niya sa kanyang kanan ang mga tupa, at sa kaliwa ang mga kambing. At sasabihin ng Hari sa mga nasa kanan, ‘Halikayo, mga pinagpala ng aking Ama! Pumasok na kayo at manirahan sa kahariang inihanda para sa inyo mula pa nang likhain ang sanlibutan. Sapagkat ako’y nagutom at inyong pinakain, nauhaw at inyong pinainom. Ako’y isang dayuhan at inyong pinatuloy. Ako’y walang maisuot at inyong pinaramtan, nagkasakit at inyong dinalaw; ako’y nabilanggo at inyong pinuntahan.’  

Sasagot ang mga matuwid, ‘Panginoon, kailan po namin kayo nakitang nagutom at aming pinakain, o nauhaw at aming pinainom? Kailan po kayo naging dayuhan at aming pinaramtan? At kailan po namin kayo nakitang may sakit o nasa bilangguan at aming dinalaw?’ Sasabihin ng Hari, ‘Sinasabi ko sa inyo: nang gawin ninyo ito sa pinakahamal sa mga kapatid kong ito, ito ay sa akin ninyo ginawa.’ 

“At sasabihin naman niya sa mga nasa kaliwa, ‘Lumayo kayo sa akin, mga sinumpa! Kayo’y pasaapoy na di mamamatay, na inihanda para sa diyablo at sa kanyang mga kampon. Sapagkat ako’y nagutom at hindi ninyo pinakain, nauhaw at hindi ninyo pinainom. Ako’y naging isang dayuhan at hindi ninyo pinatuloy; ako’y nawalan ng maisuot at hindi ninyo pinaramtan. Ako’y may sakit at nasa bilangguan at hindi ninyo dinalaw.’  

At sasagot din sila, ‘Panginoon, kailan po namin kayo nakitang nagutom, nauhaw, naging dayuhan, nawalan ng maisuot, may sakit o nasa bilangguan, at hindi namin kayo pinaglingkuran?’ At sasabihin sa kanila ng Hari, ‘Sinasabi ko sa inyo: nang pagkaitan ninyo ng tulong ang pinakahamak sa mga ito, ako ang inyong pinagkaitan.’ Itataboy ang mga ito sa kaparusahang walang hanggan, ngunit ang mga matuwid ay tatanggap ng buhay na walang hanggan.”

Reflection for Sunday February 26, First Sunday of Lent: Matthew 4:1-11

Gospel: Matthew 4:1-11

At that time Jesus was led by the Spirit into the desert to be tempted by the devil. He fasted for forty days and forty nights, and afterwards he was hungry. The tempter approached and said to him, "If you are the Son of God, command that these stones become loaves of bread." He said in reply, "It is written: One does not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes forth from the mouth of God." 

Then the devil took him to the holy city, and made him stand on the parapet of the temple, and said to him, "If you are the Son of God, throw yourself down. For it is written: He will command his angels concerning you and with their hands they will support you, lest you dash your foot against a stone." Jesus answered him, "Again it is written, You shall not put the Lord, your God, to the test." 

Then the devil took him up to a very high mountain, and showed him all the kingdoms of the world in their magnificence, and he said to him, "All these I shall give to you, if you will prostrate yourself and worship me." At this, Jesus said to him, "Get away, Satan! It is written: The Lord, your God, shall you worship and him alone shall you serve."

Then the devil left him and, behold, angels came and ministered to him.

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Reflection:

Have you been through the process of temptation?

Many of us if not all of us have gone through the process of temptation. And many of us were able to reject these temptations but sad to say that many also succumb to these temptations.  

Satan always disguises temptation as attractive satan does this to entice his prospects to fall into these temptations. However, after falling into these temptations, here comes sin, here comes problem that will surely disturb our peaceful life.  

After fasting for forty days and nights Jesus was naturally hungry and the devil thought that Jesus was now vulnerable.  Therefore the devil dangled before Jesus three temptations: Make the stone bread, throw himself off from the parapet of the temple for angels would catch him and last was the temptation of material possession. Jesus refused all these three temptations and thereafter He rebuked the devil away from His sight.

The clear message for all of us is to avoid temptation or to stand up against temptation for it will not bear any good fruit. It will only destroy us little by little as we immerse ourselves into it. For example, if you’re already married don’t allow yourself to succumb to the temptation of having an extra-marital affair because it will surely destroy you and those around you sooner or later.

There is no reward for temptation except misery, problems and disturbance of our peaceful life.  But the paradox is many still succumb to it. Why because we simply open ourselves to that temptation, we allow satan to take control of us. Hence, we become the disciple of satan the same satan who will eventually bring us hell even while we are still in this world.  

However, everything is not lost yet, the season of lent offers us a road of renewal which will lead us once again to the loving embrace of God. – Marino J. Dasmarinas  

Ang Mabuting Balita para sa Linggo Pebrero 26, Unang Linggo ng Apatnapung araw na Paghahanda: Mateo 4:1-11

Mabuting Balita: Mateo 4:1-11

Noong panahong iyon: si Hesus ay dinala ng Espiritu sa ilang upang tuksuhin ng diyablo. Doon, apatnapung araw at apatnapung gabi nag-ayuno si Hesus, at siya’y nagutom. Dumating ang manunukso at sinabi sa kaniya, “Kung ikaw ang Anak ng Diyos, gawin mong tinapay ang mga batong ito.” Ngunit sumagot si Hesus, “Nasusulat, ‘Hindi lamang sa tinapay nabubuhay ang tao, kundi sa bawat salitang namumutawi sa bibig ng Diyos.”

Pagkatapos nito’y dinala siya ng diyablo sa taluktok ng templo sa Banal na Lungsod. “Kung ikaw ang Anak ng Diyos,” sabi sa kanya, “magpatihulog ka, sapagkat nasusulat, ‘Ipagbibilin niya sa kanyang mga anghel na ingatan ka,’‘Aalalayan ka nila, upang hindi ka matisod sa bato.’” Sumagot si Hesus, “Nasusulat din naman, ‘Huwag mong subukin ang Panginoon mong Diyos.’”

Pagkatapos, dinala din siya ng diyablo sa isang napakataas na bundok. Mula roo’y ipinatanaw sa kanya ang lahat ng kaharian ng sanlibutan at ang kayamanan ng mga ito. At sinabi ng diyablo, “Ibibigay ko sa iyo ang lahat ng ito, kung magpapatirapa ka at sasamba sa akin.” Sumagot si Hesus, “Lumayas ka, Satanas! Sapagkat nasusulat, ‘Ang iyong Diyos at Panginoon ang sasambahin mo; Siya lamang ang iyong paglilingkuran.’”

At iniwan siya ng diyablo. Dumating ang mga anghel at naglingkod sa kanya. 

Ang Mabuting Balita para Pebrero 25, Sabado kasunod ng Miyerkules ng Abo: Lucas 5:27-32

Mabuting Balita: Lucas 5:27-32

Noong Panahong iyon, nakita ni Jesus ang isang publikano na nagngangalang Levi, nakaupo sa paningilan ng buwis. Sinabi sa kanya ni Jesus, "Sumunod ka sa akin." Tumindig si Levi, iniwan ang lahat, at sumunod kay Jesus.  

Si Jesus ay hinandugan ni Levi ng isang malaking piging sa kanyang bahay. Nakasalo niya roon ang mga publikano at ang iba pang mga tao. Nagbulung-bulungan ang mga Pariseo at ang kanilang mga kasamang eskriba. Sinabi nila sa mga alagad ni Jesus, "Bakit kayo kumakain at umiinom na kasalo ng mga publikano at ng mga makasalanan?"  

Sinagot siya ni Jesus, "Hindi nangangailangan ng manggagamot ang walang sakit kundi ang may sakit. Naparito ako, hindi upang tawagin ang mga matuwid kundi ang mga makasalanan upang magsisi."

Reflection for February 25, Saturday after Ash Wednesday: Luke 5:27-32

Gospel: Luke 5:27-32

Jesus saw a tax collector named Levi sitting at the customs post. He said to him, "Follow me." And leaving everything behind, he got up and followed him. Then Levi gave a great banquet for him in his house, and a large crowd of tax collectors and others were at table with them.

The Pharisees and their scribes complained to his disciples, saying, "Why do you eat and drink with tax collectors and sinners?" Jesus said to them in reply, "Those who are healthy do not need a physician, but the sick do. I have not come to call the righteous to repentance but sinners."

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Reflection:

What made Jesus call Levi to follow Him and what made Levi leave everything behind to follow Jesus? Of course, the main reason was Levi was a sinner and he got tired of living a life of sin. Therefore,
when Levi was called by Jesus he threw caution to the wind to follow Jesus. For he knew that at long last there is someone who’s not judging him and someone who’s willing to give him a second chance to live life away from sin.

In this gospel episode Jesus gives us valuable lesson on how we can call others to conversion. First is let us not be judgmental with those whom we perceive as sinners. Who are we to judge when we are sinners also? Second is let us always give others a second chance no matter how sinful they are.

There are many who are itching to live their lives away from sin but no one is willing to give them a second chance. It seems to them that almost everyone is condemning them. If only we know that they are already sick and tired of living in sin. If only we know that they are just waiting for us to call them to a life of renewal.

Let us make it our vow not to be judgmental. Let us make it our vow to give those whom we perceive as sinners a second chance. There are sinners because there are people who are judgmental and people who are not willing to give them a second chance. – Marino J. Dasmarinas