Gospel:
Matthew 18:21-19:1Peter
approached Jesus and asked him, “Lord, if my brother sins against me, how often
must I forgive him? As many as seven times?” Jesus answered, “I say to you, not
seven times but seventy-seven times. That is why the Kingdom of heaven may be
likened to a king who decided to settle accounts with his servants.
When he began
the accounting, a debtor was brought before him who owed him a huge amount.
Since he had no way of paying it back, his master ordered him to be sold, along
with his wife, his children, and all his property, in payment of the debt. At
that, the servant fell down, did him homage, and said, ‘Be patient with me, and
I will pay you back in full.’
Moved with
compassion the master of that servant let him go and forgave him the loan. When
that servant had left, he found one of his fellow servants who owed him a much
smaller amount. He seized him and started to choke him, demanding, ‘Pay back
what you owe.’ Falling to his knees, his fellow servant begged him, ‘Be patient
with me, and I will pay you back.’
But he
refused. Instead, he had the fellow servant put in prison until he paid back
the debt. Now when his fellow servants saw what had happened, they were deeply
disturbed, and went to their master and reported the whole affair. His master
summoned him and said to him, ‘You wicked servant!
I forgave you
your entire debt because you begged me to. Should you not have had pity on your
fellow servant, as I had pity on you?’ Then in anger his master handed him over
to the torturers until he should pay back the whole debt. So will my heavenly
Father do to you, unless each of you forgives his brother from his heart.”
When Jesus
finished these words, he left Galilee and went to the district of Judea across
the Jordan.
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Reflection:
The story is
told about a philandering husband who was finally caught by his wife. The
husband realized his mistake, so he humbly asked for forgiveness. After days of
prayer and deep contemplation, the wife finally found it in her heart to
forgive her unfaithful husband.
In the
Gospel, Jesus speaks to us about the beauty and depth of true forgiveness. His
forgiveness is not partial, hesitant, or tinged with resentment—it is a
forgiveness that is complete and unconditional.
It is a
forgiveness without a trace of bitterness or hatred, a forgiveness that can
wash away even the darkest stains of our past and paint over them with the
bright and gentle colors of hope, healing, and new beginnings.
But in
moments of honest reflection, we might ask ourselves: Can I truly forgive the
way Jesus forgives? Many of us would instinctively say, “I cannot.” Why?
Because we think, I am only human and Jesus is God. I am finite, and He is
infinite.
Yet, if this
is our reasoning, we must remember this truth: Jesus not only forgave us—He
also offered His very life for us. On the cross, He forgave those who betrayed
Him, denied Him, and crucified Him. His mercy is beyond measure, and His
example is meant not only to inspire us but to transform us.
Who is your
role model when it comes to forgiveness? Is it Jesus, whose love knows no
bounds, or the unforgiving servant in the Gospel, who could not pass on the
mercy he had received?
Forgiveness
is not weakness—it is the power of God at work in the human heart. When we
choose to forgive, we choose to let God’s grace flow through us. And in doing
so, we not only free others, but we also free ourselves. — Marino J. Dasmarinas