1. “Father, forgive them; they know not what they
do.” (Luke 23:34) Are you forgiving?
Mahatma Gandhi once said: “The weak can
never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.” Forgiveness simply
means that we choose to move on and not allow hatred to destroy us.
Hanging on the cross and near death
Jesus spoke these profound words. Who was Jesus alluding to when He spoke these words? Jesus was
alluding to those who persecuted Him which led Him on the cross. They were His
critics like the Pharisees, Scribes, High priest and the like. Included also
were the Soldiers who brought Him to the mountain of Calvary to nail Him on the
cross.
Here we see that Jesus is full of mercy,
love and forgiveness towards those who made life very difficult for Him. Jesus
did not bear any hatred towards those who hated and killed Him.
We have to reflect here on how we
forgive those who sinned against us. For example, if a person betrayed our
trust or a person hurts us. Have we forgiven them already? We have to forgive
no matter how deep the hurt they’ve inflicted upon us. Why? Because if Jesus
can forgive who are we not to forgive?
Forgiveness is a gift that we give not
to those who’ve hurt us or betrayed us. Forgiveness is a gift that we give to
ourselves for the simple reason that we are only hurting our very selves when
we don’t forgive. We have to free ourselves from being imprisoned by hatred
caused by our unforgiveness. Therefore, we have to forgive.
Are you forgiving?
2. “Amen, I say to you, today you will be with
me in Paradise.” (Luke 23:43)
Where is the paradise that Jesus is
referring?
The paradise is with Him, in Him and in
His kingdom in heaven. Jesus addressed this statement to one of the criminals
hanging on the cross by His side. The criminal said to Jesus: “Jesus, remember
me when you come into your kingdom (Luke 23:42).” And right there Jesus said to
the criminal: “Amen, I say to you, today you will be with me in Paradise.”
(Luke 23:43)
The criminal was enlightened while he
was hanging on the cross side by side with Jesus. This is the reason why he asked the Lord to
remember him when He is already in His kingdom. Don’t we all want to have the
same enlightenment that he had? Of course, we want it as well. So, we have to
humbly ask the Lord for the same enlightenment coursed through our prayers to
the Lord. Many of us are so fixated in this fleeting word that we think and
feel that this is our paradise.
But as we went through the covid-19
pandemic experience and as we see the destructive result of Russia’s unprovoked
war against Ukraine we discover that this world is not at all paradise. We seek
worldly pleasures (many of these worldly pleasures influence us to sin). We
seek temporal wealth and worldly power and influence only to find out that this
is not where paradise is located. Why?
For the simple reason that we humans have no satisfaction we will seek
these earthly things which we think would satisfy us. Only to realize in the
end that it cannot and will not satisfy us.
So, where is the real paradise that the
Lord is talking? This paradise we can only find, feel and experience with Him,
in Him and through Him. The true and real paradise that Jesus mentions is
already here and now when we make Jesus part and parcel of our daily
living.
Where is your paradise?
3. “Woman, behold thy son. After that, he said
to the disciple: Behold thy mother.” (John 19: 26-27)
Do you respect and love the Blessed Mother
and your own mother?
When Jesus was on the cross dying, He
saw His mother Mary still looking after Him. His mother, who cared, nurtured
and watched over Him from the beginning until the end of His life. Dying and
all, Jesus saw that nobody would take care of His mother so He asked John, His
beloved disciple to take care of her.
Do we also take care of the Blessed
Mother by respecting her as Jesus respected her? Mary is the mother of Jesus
therefore it is incumbent for us to give her the respect and love which she
richly deserves. We show our love and
respect for the Blessed Mother when we pray the Holy Rosary. When we politely
teach others to respect her because she is the mother of Jesus and our mother
as well. Mary our mother who will always be there to listen to us when no one
would dare listen to us. Mary our mother
who will always be there to pray for us.
This is also to remind us that we have
to respect and love at all times our own respective mothers. We would never
exist in this world without our mothers. We would never become who we are today
without their guidance and nurturing. Jesus would not have existed in this
world without the consent of his mother Mary. As a debt of gratitude to his
mother Jesus saw it fit to entrust his mother to his beloved disciple John.
Do you respect and love the Blessed
Mother and your own mother? What are you
doing right now to show your respect and love for the Blessed Mother? Do you
invoke her intersession when you pray? Do you defend her when someone is
demeaning her role in the life of Jesus?
4.
“My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?” (Mark 15:34)
Do you sometimes feel forsaken by the
Lord?
On the cross and dying Jesus uttered
these words. These are words of surrender, frustration and giving up. After
going through all of the persecutions, torture and abandonment Jesus felt
forsaken. Who among us would not feel the same way when we’ve been through what
Jesus had been through? We would also understandably feel forsaken and
abandoned by the Lord.
But did God abandon Jesus when He was
gasping and dying on the cross? Does God abandon and forsake us when we are at
the lowest point of our life? Is God absent as we navigate through the
dangerous waters of this covid-19
pandemic experience? God did not abandon Jesus, God was with Jesus all the way!
God was strengthening Jesus when Jesus was at the lowest and weakest point in
His life. And certainly God is also walking with us as we try to survive this
covid-19 pandemic experience.
We are humans subject to our own human
frailties. It is understandable to feel forsaken by the Lord once in a while.
But truth be told, God’s presence in our lives is strongest when we feel
forsaken by this world and the people of this world. God will never forsake us,
God will never abandon us and God will always be there to strengthen us.
Therefore, we always have to cling to Him in good times and most especially in
the turbulent episodes of our lives.
Do you sometimes feel abandoned and
forsaken by the Lord?
5.“I
thirst.” (John 19:28)
What do we thirst for?
Was it physical thirst that Jesus was
feeling when He said: “I thirst.” In His humanity, yes physical thirst but more
than that it was the thirst for those people who were formerly with Him. These
are the people who were with Jesus during His healing and speaking ministry.
Dying on the cross perhaps, Jesus was
whimpering while saying, “I thirst.” Why? For the reason that He was also
thirsting for His followers and apostles who were with Him during His
miraculous healing and powerful speaking ministry.
It is in the lowest episodes of our
lives that we would know who is really for us and not for us. Those who are for
us would choose to remain no matter the odds against us. Those who are not for
us would immediately evaporate from our sights to save their necks.
When we encounter these words: “I
thirst.” Let us imagine that Jesus is
addressing these words to us. I thirst for you to be faithful in your marriage
covenant. I thirst for you to be honest where you are presently working right
now. I Thirst for you to value the sacredness of life over the evils of
abortion and extra judicial killing. I thirst for you to always be humble and
simple.
I
thirst for your presence at Holy Mass every day or even every Sunday if you
cannot make it every day. I thirst for
you to become a good father/mother. I thirst for you to become a good and God
loving son/daughter. I thirst for you to be faithful to your priesthood. I thirst
for you to be faithful to your religious life. I thirst for you to help those
who are hungry.
Would you respond to Jesus thirst?
6. “It is finished.” (John 19:30)
How do you feel after finishing a worthy
undertaking?
You feel good and triumphant. This
second to the last word of Jesus is a word of triumph, at last it’s over at
last it’s mission accomplished!
Jesus finally defeated the voice of
Satan who was whispering to Him not to finish His salvific mission. Jesus
overcame the many hurdles and temptation for Him not to pursue to the end His
mission of salvation. Finally, Jesus redeemed the sinful humanity from the
enslavement of sin.
However, it’s not finished for us yet,
we are still in this journey called life. We are still battling the many demons
that constantly whispers to our ears to commit sin. So, what are we going to do
to be able to say that, “It's finally finished!”
We have to be faithful to our Lord until
our end in this temporal world overtakes us. Then, when it comes, we can
finally say, it is finished because we have been faithful to the Lord. We did
not give an iota of space for Satan to distract us in our disciples with the
Lord.
Would we be able to successfully say,
“It is finished ” when the sun sets upon us someday? It is finished because we
have defeated the many demons that were constantly tempting us to give up in
our disciples for Jesus.
7.
“Father, into your hands I commend my spirit.” (Luke 23:46)
Are you afraid to die?
After all has been said and done it’s
now the end, it’s the victorious death of Jesus on the cross. Jesus conquered
our sinfulness by dying on the cross. By giving His very life on the cross
Jesus showed us the true meaning of sacrifice and love.
Death is something that many of us fear
but why fear death if we live our life with Jesus in this world? Why fear death
when this is the final hurdle for us to be with the Lord in heaven? Why fear
death when it ends all our sufferings in this world? If we have not done wrong
in this world we would not fear death. When we love the Lord over this fleeting
and temporal world we would not fear death.
Many of us fear death for the simple
reason that we are so attached to this world. But if we are detached from this
world and attached to our Lord, we would not fear death. What are the
attachments that we have that makes us fear death? Are we so attached to our worldly possession
that’s why we fear death?
When we make this world our God we would
fear death, when we make our worldly possession our master instead of servant
we would fear death. Jesus conquered His fear of death because He has no
worldly attachments. From the beginning Jesus detached Himself from this world
because it would encumber Him from devoting His life to His mission of
salvation.
Let us slowly but surely detach
ourselves from this world. So that when we are at the doorway going to the
everlasting life we can say to our Lord: "I'm finally coming home my Lord,
into your hands I commend my spirit." -
Marino J. Dasmarinas