Reflection for August 18, Wednesday of the Twentieth Week in Ordinary Time: Matthew 20:1-16

Gospel: Matthew 20:1-16

Jesus told his disciples this parable: “The Kingdom of heaven is like a landowner who went out at dawn to hire laborers for his vineyard. After agreeing with them for the usual daily wage, he sent them into his vineyard. Going out about nine o’clock, he saw others standing idle in the marketplace, and he said to them, ‘You too go into my vineyard, and I will give you what is just.’ So they went off. And he went out again around noon, and around three o’clock, and did likewise.  

Going out about five o’clock, he found others standing around, and said to them, ‘Why do you stand here idle all day?’ They answered, ‘Because no one has hired us.’ He said to them, ‘You too go into my vineyard.’ When it was evening the owner of the vineyard said to his foreman, ‘Summon the laborers and give them their pay, beginning with the last and ending with the first.’  When those who had started about five o’clock came, each received the usual daily wage.  

So when the first came, they thought that they would receive more, but each of them also got the usual wage. And on receiving it they grumbled against the landowner, saying, ‘These last ones worked only one hour, and you have made them equal to us, who bore the day’s burden and the heat.’  

He said to one of them in reply, ‘My friend, I am not cheating you. Did you not agree with me for the usual daily wage? Take what is yours and go. What if I wish to give this last one the same as you? Or am I not free to do as I wish with my own money? Are you envious because I am generous?’ Thus, the last will be first, and the first will be last.”

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Reflection:

Do you every once in a while question the decision/s of God in your life?  

God thinks differently from how we think and God decides not based on how we think. It seems that the landowner who represents the Lord is unfair. This is for the reason that He paid the workers the same amount regardless of the time they’ve labored in his vineyard. Was he really unfair to the other workers who worked for longer hours or he was simply generous?  

The landowner was simply generous and fair for he paid everyone based on what they’ve agreed upon.   It did not matter to him which of them worked early in the day and who worked late in the day. What was important for him was he paid everyone based on what they’ve agreed upon.  

We can’t help but compare God’s generosity compared to ours if at all we are generous. If God doesn’t count the cost, we count, and if God is generous we are often times not generous. If we discriminate God doesn’t discriminate whomever we are, what is important for God is we respond to His invitation.  

God doesn’t look at how sinful you are, God doesn’t look at how early and late you respond to His call of repentance. What is important for God is you respond to His call of repentance no matter how late.  

Would you respond to God’s call? - Marino J. Dasmarinas

Reflection for August 17, Tuesday of the Twentieth Week in Ordinary Time: Matthew 19:23-30

Gospel: Matthew 19:23-30

Jesus said to his disciples: “Amen, I say to you, it will be hard for one who is rich to enter the Kingdom of heaven. Again I say to you, it is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for one who is rich to enter the Kingdom of God.” 

When the disciples heard this, they were greatly astonished and said, “Who then can be saved?” Jesus looked at them and said, “For men this is impossible, but for God all things are possible.” Then Peter said to him in reply, “We have given up everything and followed you. 

What will there be for us?” Jesus said to them, “Amen, I say to you that you who have followed me, in the new age, when the Son of Man is seated on his throne of glory, will yourselves sit on twelve thrones, judging the twelve tribes of Israel. And everyone who has given up houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or children or lands for the sake of my name will receive a hundred times more, and will inherit eternal life. But many who are first will be last, and the last will be first.”

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Reflection:

Can you achieve inner peace and serenity by chasing the offerings of this world? 

Fortune and even fame will not give us inner peace and serenity. We may have all the material wealth of this world but it amounts to nothing if we are without inner peace, serenity and if we don’t have God. We simply have to look at the many rich, famous and powerful people who committed suicide. 

In our gospel Jesus said to the disciples, it will be hard for one who is rich to enter the Kingdom of heaven. This is in reference to the rich man who couldn’t give up his treasures in favor of the poor and his discipleship with Jesus. That rich man was actually invited by Jesus to become his follower but he declined the glorious offer because he held on to his wealth.

It’s not actually bad to be rich, but it becomes a hazard to our wellbeing when we make riches our God. That we are not willing to let it go for anything even for the sake of the kingdom of God. Therefore, when we are so in love with our fleeting wealth we become capable of doing anything that Jesus abhors.   

For example, allowing ourselves to be captured by wealth that we make it our God. Allowing our greed for wealth to engage in corruption just to have it and so forth.   

Jesus said in our gospel that it is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for one who is rich to enter the Kingdom of God. This statement of Jesus is simply a hyperbole that carries so much weight and meaning. 

Come to thinks of it, is it bad to get rich? Of course not for as long as we don’t make our earthly wealth our God.   Instead, why not use wealth to help advance the kingdom of God? For the simple reason that the more that we give away our riches  the more that we become fit for the kingdom of God. 

God created us to freely aspire for His kingdom in heaven and not to be permanently imprisoned by our riches in this world. - Marino J. Dasmarinas

Ang Mabuting Balita para sa Agosto 17 Martes sa Ika-20 Linggo ng Taon: Mateo 19:23-30

Mabuting Balita: Mateo 19:23-30

23 Sinabi ni Jesus sa kanyang mga alagad: “Talagang sinasabi ko sa inyo: mahirap makapasok ang mayaman sa kaharian ng Langit. 24 Oo, mani­wala kayo, mas madali pa para sa kamelyo ang lumusot sa butas ng karayom kaysa puma­sok ang isang mayaman sa kaha­rian ng Langit.” 

25 Nang marinig ito ng mga alagad, namangha sila at sinabing “Kung gayon, sino ang maliligtas?” 26 Tini­tigan sila ni Jesus at sumagot: “Impo­sible ito para sa tao; pero para sa Diyos, lahat ay posible.” 27 Nagsalita si Pedro at sinabi: “Iniwan namin ang lahat para sumunod sa iyo: ano naman ang para sa amin?” 

28 Sumagot si Jesus: “Talagang sinasabi ko sa in­yong mga sumunod sa akin:  sa Araw ng Pagbabago, pag upo ng Anak ng Tao sa kanyang trono nang buong luwalhati, uupo rin kayo sa labin­dalawang trono para maghari sa labin­dalawang tribu ng Israel. 29 At ang mag-iwan ng mga tahanan, mga kapatid, ama at ina, mga anak o mga bukid alang-alang sa ngalan ko, ta­tang­gap siya ng sandaang beses at maka­kamit ang buhay na wa­lang hanggan. 30 May mga una ngayon na mahuhuli at may mga huli na­man na mauuna.

Reflection for August 16, Monday of the Twentieth Week in Ordinary Time: Matthew 19:16-22

Gospel: Matthew 19:16-22

A young man approached Jesus and said, “Teacher, what good must I do to gain eternal life?” He answered him, “Why do you ask me about the good? There is only One who is good. If you wish to enter into life, keep the commandments.” He asked him, “Which ones?” And Jesus replied, “You shall not kill; you shall not commit adultery; you shall not steal; you shall not bear false witness; honor your father and your mother; and you shall love your neighbor as yourself.”  

The young man said to him, “All of these I have observed. What do I still lack?” Jesus said to him, “If you wish to be perfect, go, sell what you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.” When the young man heard this statement, he went away sad, for he had many possessions.

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Reflection:

Would you give up everything to follow Jesus?  

So near and yet so far, perhaps this was the predicament of the man who asked Jesus on what must he do to have eternal life. He already did everything that was asked of him until Jesus told him to sell everything in his possession and give the proceeds to the poor then follow Him. The man quietly walked away for the reason that he can’t let go of his many earthly possessions.  

Somehow this man represents many if not all of us we who find it very hard to let go of our earthly possession in favor of following the Lord. What is with wealth that we cannot let go? We cannot bring it to our graves we cannot even possess it anymore when we are already old for someone will possess it for us or even hide it from us.  

Saint Francis of Asisi was from a noble and rich family he gave everything to the poor so that he could respond to God’s call.  God’s will for us also is to give up our riches so that others may live from it. This is very hard to do that requires radical change of mindset and lifestyle for us to fully embrace it.  

Perhaps if we are not willing to give up everything because we also have our own family to feed and take care of. We can give to the poor the amount does matter what matter is it comes from our hearts. Because it’s only through giving up of something that we treasure in this world that we could follow Jesus.     

Are you like the young man in our gospel who walked away from Jesus because he had many possessions? Or you are like Saint Francis of Asisi who gave up everything to the poor so that he could respond to the call of the Lord? - Marino J. Dasmarinas

Ang Mabuting Balita para sa Agosto 16 Lunes sa Ika-20 Linggo ng Taon: Mateo 19:16-22

Mabuting Balita: Mateo 19:16-22

16 Lumapit kay Jesus ang isang binata at nagtanong: “Guro, anong mabuti ang dapat kong gawin para makamit ang buhay na wa­lang hanggan?” 17 Sumagot si Jesus: “Bakit tungkol sa mabuti ang tanong mo? 

Iisa lang ang Mabuti. Kung gusto mong pumasok sa buhay na walang hanggan, sundin mo ang mga utos.” 18 At sinabi naman ng binata: “Anong mga utos?” Sumagot si Jesus: “Huwag papatay, huwag makiapid, huwag mag­­nakaw, huwag manirang-puri ng kapwa, 19 iga­lang ang iyong ama at ina, at mahalin ang iyong kapwa gaya ng pagmamahal mo sa iyong sarili.” 

20 At sinabi sa kanya ng binata: “Sinu­nod ko ang lahat ng ito, ano pa ang kulang ko?” 21 At sinabi ni Jesus: “Kung gusto mong maging ganap, umuwi ka’t ipagbili ang mga ari-arian mo at ibigay ang pera sa mga dukha, at magka­karoon ka ng kayamanan sa Langit. At saka ka bumalik para sumunod sa akin.” 

22 Pagkarinig ng binata sa pahayag na ito, umalis siyang malungkot sapagkat napakayaman niya. 

1Reflection for Sunday August 15, Solemnity of the Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary: Luke 1:39-56

Gospel: Luke 1:39-56

Mary set out and traveled to the hill country in haste to a town of Judah, where she entered the house of Zechariah and greeted Elizabeth. When Elizabeth heard Mary’s greeting, the infant leaped in her womb, and Elizabeth, filled with the Holy Spirit, cried out in a loud voice and said, “Most blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb. And how does this happen to me, that the mother of my Lord should come to me?  

For at the moment the sound of your greeting reached my ears, the infant in my womb leaped for joy. Blessed are you who believed that what was spoken to you by the Lord would be fulfilled.”  

And Mary said: “My soul proclaims the greatness of the Lord; my spirit rejoices in God my Savior, for he has looked with favor on his lowly servant. From this day all generations will call me blessed: the Almighty has done great things for me, and holy is his Name. He has mercy on those who fear him in every generation.  

He has shown the strength of his arm, he has scattered the proud in their conceit. He has cast down the mighty from their thrones, and has lifted up the lowly. He has filled the hungry with good things, and the rich he has sent away empty. He has come to the help of his servant Israel for he has remembered his promise of mercy, the promise he made to our fathers, to Abraham and his children forever.”  

Mary remained with her about three months and then returned to her home.

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Reflection:

The story is told about a rich and generous woman who would always give to anyone who is need regardless if she would be asked for help or not. A close friend who was so amazed by her generosity asked her: “Why are you so generous and don’t you keep something for yourself?” The generous woman replied: “I am not a permanent dweller in this present world sooner or later I would be leaving this world and my acts of generosity is my way of preparation for my journey going to heaven where I will permanently dwell with my God.  

Today is the Solemnity of the Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary. This dogma was defined by Pope Pius XII on November 1 1950. It states that the immaculate Mother of God, the Virgin Mary, after completing her earthly life, was assumed body and soul to heavenly glory.”  

The solemnity of the Assumption of the Blessed Virgin reminds all of us of what awaits us when our time to depart this world comes. We are also destined for heaven someday but we are still presently in a journey.  

Therefore we are called to do good and to touch lives. We are presently in the midst of this destructive covid-19 pandemic and obviously many are in need of help. Hence we have to help if we have the necessary means to help.     

In the gospel, the Blessed Mother went to visit her cousin Elizabeth for she knew that her cousin was in need of her help. It was an unexpected visit from the Blessed Mother which her cousin Elizabeth deeply appreciated. They shared lots of stories about themselves. They strengthened each other’s morale, love and bond. Thus, the Blessed Mother stayed with her cousin until she gave birth.  

Today because of fear of being infected with covid-19 we are being discouraged to visit anyone. As much as possible we only stay inside our homes but we still can help if we would desire to help. – Marino J. Dasmarinas   

Ang Mabuting Balita para sa Linggo Agosto 15 Ang Pag aakyat sa Langit ng Mahal na Birheng Maria: Lucas 1:39-56

Mabuting Balita: Lucas 1:39-56

39 Nang mga araw ring iyo’y nag­mamadaling naglakbay si Maria pa­punta sa isang bayan sa mataas na lupain ng Juda. 40 Pumasok siya roon sa bahay ni Zacarias at binati si Eli­zabeth. 41 Nang marinig ni Elizabeth ang bati ni Maria, sumikad ang sanggol sa si­na­pupunan niya, at napuspos ng Espiritu Santo si Elizabeth 42 at mala­kas siyang sumigaw at sinabi: “Lubos kang pi­nagpala sa mga kababaihan. Pinag­pala rin ang bunga ng iyong sina­pu­punan! 

43 Sino nga ba naman ako’t na­parito sa akin ang ina ng aking Pa­ngi­noon? 44 Nang umabot sa aking pan­dinig ang iyong pagbati, sumikad sa tuwa ang sanggol sa aking sina­pu­punan. 45 Pinagpapala ang naniniwa­lang magaganap ang mga sinabi sa kanya ng Pa­nginoon.” 46 At sinabi ni Maria: “Dinadakila ng aking kaluluwa ang Panginoon 47 at nagagalak ang aking espiritu sa Diyos na aking Tagapagligtas 48 dahil isinaalang-alang niya ang abang utu­san niya, at mula ngayon, ituturing akong mapalad ng lahat ng salinlahi. 49 Dakila nga ang ginawa sa akin ng Ma­kapangya­rihan, banal ang kanyang Pangalan. 

50 Patuloy ang kanyang awa sa mga sali’t salinlahi para sa mga may pitagan sa kanya. 51 Ipinakita niya ang lakas ng kanyang bisig, ipinagtabuyan ang mga taong may ma­pagma­taas na balak. 52 Pinatalsik niya sa luklukan ang mga makapang­yarihan, itinampok naman ang mga bale-wala. 53 Binusog niya ng mabubuting bagay ang mga na­gugutom at itinaboy namang walang-wala ang maya­yaman. 54 Nilingap niya ang Israel na kanyang lingkod, inalaala ang kanyang awa 55ayon sa ipinangako niya sa ating mga ninuno, kay Abraham at sa kanyang angkan mag­paka­ilanman.” 56 Mga tatlong buwang nanatili si Ma­riang ka­sa­ma ni Elizabeth at saka nagbalik sa kanyang bahay.

1Reflection for August 14, Saturday Saint Maximilian Kolbe, Priest and Martyr (M): Matthew 19:13-15

Gospel: Matthew 19:13-15

Children were brought to Jesus that he might lay his hands on them and pray. The disciples rebuked them, but Jesus said, "Let the children come to me, and do not prevent them; for the Kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these." After he placed his hands on them, he went away.

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Reflection:

In a faraway village lived two families with five children each. Family number one was a devout catholic; they always attend Sunday Holy Mass. The parents lead their children in reflecting the words of Jesus in the bible and they regularly pray the Holy Rosary. On the other hand, family number two is the complete opposite of family number one.  

Twenty years after, the children of family number one were all successful and respected in their respective communities. The children of family number two were again the opposite of the children of family number one.  

Many parents today forget the primacy of God over everything that this world offers us. They are always very busy with their worldly undertakings. They forget to gather their children during Sundays to watch online Holy Mass. They forget to share to their children the words of Jesus in the bible. They forget to teach their children about the faith.  

We all know that as children grow up they would encounter their own share of problems. Where would they go to unburden their problems if they don’t know God?  

In the gospel, Jesus tells us, “Let the children come to me (Matthew 19:14)”. Why? For the simple reason that the Good Lord wants to ensure a Bright, Good and Godly future for our children.  

Have you already introduced your children to the Lord and are they friends with Him? – Marino J. Dasmarinas      

Ang Mabuting Balita para sa Agosto 14 Sabado San Maximiliano Maria Kolbe: Mateo 19:13-15

Mabuting Balita: Mateo 19:13-15

Noong panahong iyon, may nagdala ng mga bata kay Jesus upang hilinging ipatong niya sa mga ito ang kanyang kamay at ipanalangin.  

Ngunit pinagwikaan sila ng mga alagad. Datapwat sinabi ni Jesus, "Hayaan ninyong lumapit sa akin ang mga bata. Huwag ninyo silang hadlangan, sapagkat sa katulad nila naghahari ang Diyos." Ipinatong niya sa kanila ang kanyang mga kamay, saka umalis.

 

1Reflection for August 13, Friday of the Nineteenth Week in Ordinary Time: Matthew 19:3-12

Gospel: Matthew 19:3-12

Some Pharisees approached Jesus, and tested him, saying, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any cause whatever?” He said in reply, “Have you not read that from the beginning the Creator made them male and female and said, For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh?  

So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore, what God has joined together, man must not separate. They said to him, “Then why did Moses command that the man give the woman a bill of divorce and dismiss her?” He said to them, “Because of the hardness of your hearts Moses allowed you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so. I say to you, whoever divorces his wife (unless the marriage is unlawful) and marries another commits adultery.  

His disciples said to him, “If that is the case of a man with his wife, it is better not to marry. He answered, “Not all can accept this word, but only those to whom that is granted. Some are incapable of marriage because they were born so; some, because they were made so by others; some, because they have renounced marriage for the sake of the Kingdom of heaven. Whoever can accept this ought to accept it.

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Reflection:

How’s your married life?  

From the beginning up until this very moment separation is never in the agenda of God. God’s desire for married couples is to remain married until death. Yet, some contradict this agenda of God by introducing separation in the marriage. Some contradict this agenda of God by betraying the sacred marriage vows, not once, not twice but many times.  

But come to think of it, why do married couples separate? They separate because there is an absence of God in their marriage. They separate because they allow the temptations of the devil to overpower God and His command to make marriage Sacred and Holy.  This is the primary reason otherwise they wouldn’t separate if there’s an active presence of God in their marriage.  

When God is left out of the marriage or the teaching of God is not taken seriously. The devil is given the opportunity to create havoc in the couple’s married life. And the devil will never stop until it finally destroys the marriage covenant of the couple.   

Therefore, make Jesus an active player in your marriage.  How are you going to do this? Have time for Holy Mass as a family. Have time for prayer as a family and have time for reading and afterwards reflection of the words of Jesus in the bible as a family.  

Is Jesus an active member in your marriage? – Marino J. Dasmarinas 

Ang Mabuting Balita para sa Agosto 13 Biyernes sa Ika-19 na Linggo ng Taon: Mateo 19:3-12

 

Mabuting Balita: Mateo 19:3-12

3 Lumapit kay Jesus ang ilang Pariseo na hangad siyang subukan, at tinanong nila siya: “Pinahihintu­lutan bang diborsiyuhin ng lalaki ang kanyang asawa sa anumang dahi­lan?” 

4 Sumagot si Jesus: “Hindi ba ninyo na­basa na sa simula’y ginawa sila ng May­kapal na lalaki at babae, 5 at sinabi rin nitong iiwanan ng lalaki ang kanyang ama at ina, at pipisan sa kan­yang asawa, at magiging iisang katawan ang dalawa? 6 Kung gayo’y hindi na sila dalawa kundi iisang katawan lamang; kaya huwag pag­hiwalayin ng tao ang pinagbuklod ng Diyos.” 

7 At sinabi nila: “Kung gayon, bakit ini­utos ni Moises na bigyan ang babae ng kasulatan ng diborsiyo bago siya pa­alisin?” 8 Sinabi naman niya sa kanila: “Alam ni Moises na matigas ang inyong puso kaya pinayagan kayong diborsiyuhin ang inyong mga asawa, ngunit hindi ganito sa simula. 9 At sinasabi ko naman sa inyo: kung may magpaalis sa kanyang asawa, mali­ban kung dahil sa pag­tataksil, at saka magpakasal sa iba, naki­apid na siya.” 

10 Sinabi naman ng mga alagad: “Kung iyan ang itinatadhana para sa lalaking may-asawa, walang pakinabang sa pag-aasawa.” 11 Sinabi ni Jesus sa kanila: “Hindi matatanggap ng lahat ang salitang ito, kundi ng mga pinagkalooban lamang nito. 12 May ilang ipina­nganak na hindi maka­pag-aasawa. May iba namang ipinakapon ng tao. At may iba ring tuma­likod sa pag-aasa­wa alang-alang sa kaha­rian ng Langit. Tanggapin ito ng puwe­deng tumanggap.”

Reflection for August 12, Thursday of the Nineteenth Week in Ordinary Time: Matthew 18:21-19:1

Gospel: Matthew 18:21-19:1

Peter approached Jesus and asked him, “Lord, if my brother sins against me, how often must I forgive him? As many as seven times?” Jesus answered, “I say to you, not seven times but seventy-seven times. That is why the Kingdom of heaven may be likened to a king who decided to settle accounts with his servants. 

When he began the accounting, a debtor was brought before him who owed him a huge amount. Since he had no way of paying it back, his master ordered him to be sold, along with his wife, his children, and all his property, in payment of the debt. At that, the servant fell down, did him homage, and said, ‘Be patient with me, and I will pay you back in full.’ 

Moved with compassion the master of that servant let him go and forgave him the loan. When that servant had left, he found one of his fellow servants who owed him a much smaller amount. He seized him and started to choke him, demanding, ‘Pay back what you owe.’ Falling to his knees, his fellow servant begged him, ‘Be patient with me, and I will pay you back.’ 

But he refused. Instead, he had the fellow servant put in prison until he paid back the debt. Now when his fellow servants saw what had happened, they were deeply disturbed, and went to their master and reported the whole affair. His master summoned him and said to him, ‘You wicked servant! 

I forgave you your entire debt because you begged me to. Should you not have had pity on your fellow servant, as I had pity on you?’ Then in anger his master handed him over to the torturers until he should pay back the whole debt. So will my heavenly Father do to you, unless each of you forgives his brother from his heart.” 

When Jesus finished these words, he left Galilee and went to the district of Judea across the Jordan.

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Reflection:

The story is told about a philandering husband who was finally caught by his wife. The husband realized his mistake so he asked for forgiveness.  After days of contemplation the wife finally forgave his unfaithful husband. 

In the gospel, Jesus talks about forgiveness. Jesus forgiveness is a wholesale kind of forgiveness a forgiveness without trace of bitterness and hatred. A forgiveness that is ever willing to erase our dark past and replace it with bright and pastel colors for the future. 

But in hindsight, are we capable of forgiving like Jesus? Perhaps many of us would say that we are not capable. But why? For the simple reason that we are only humans and Jesus is God, we are finite and Jesus is infinite. However, if this is our argument we have to remember that He not only forgave us, Jesus even gave His very life for us. 

Who is your role model when it comes to forgiveness is it Jesus or the unforgiving servant in the gospel? – Marino J. Dasmarinas

Ang Mabuting Balita para sa Agosto 12 Huwebes sa Ika-19 na Linggo ng Taon: Mateo 18:21-19:1

Mabuting Balita: Mateo 18:21-19:1

 21 Nagtanong si Pedro: “Pa¬nginoon, gaano kadalas ko naman dapat patawarin ang mga pagku-kulang ng aking kapatid? Pitong be¬ses ba?” 22 Sumagot si Jesus: “Hindi, hindi pitong beses kundi pitumpu’t pitong beses.  23 Tungkol sa kaharian ng Langit ang kasaysayang ito. Isang hari ang nag¬pasyang pagbayarin ng utang ang kanyang mga utusan. 24 Nang simulan niyang suriin ang kuwenta, ini¬harap sa kanya ang isang may utang na sampung libong baretang ginto. 25 Dahil walang ma¬ibayad sa kanya ang tao, iniutos ng panginoon na ipagbili at maging alipin siya kasama ng kan¬yang asawa, mga anak at mga ari-arian bilang bayad-utang.

26 At nagpatirapa sa paanan ng hari ang opisyal at sinabi: ‘Bigyan mo pa ako ng panahon, at ba¬bayaran kong lahat ang utang ko.’ 27 Naawa sa kanya ang hari at hindi lamang siya pinalaya kundi kinansela pa ang kanyang utang.28 Pagkaalis ng opisyal na ito, nasa¬lu¬bong ni¬ya ang isa sa kanyang mga kasamahan na may utang namang sandaang barya sa kanya. Si¬nung¬gaban niya ito sa leeg at halos sakalin habang sumisigaw ng ‘Bayaran mo ang utang mo!’ 29 Nagpa¬tirapa sa paanan niya ang kanyang kasamahan at nag¬sabi: ‘Big¬yan mo pa ako ng panahon, at baba-yaran kong lahat ang utang ko sa iyo.’ 30 Ngunit tumanggi siya at ipina¬kulong ito hanggang maka¬bayad ng utang.

31 Labis na nalungkot ang iba nilang kapwa-lingkod nang makita ang nang¬yari. Kaya pinuntahan nila ang kani¬lang panginoon at ibinalita ang buong pang¬yayari. 32 Ipinatawag naman niya ang opisyal at sinabi: ‘Masamang utusan, pinatawad ko ang lahat ng iyong utang nang maki¬usap ka sa akin. 33 Di ba dapat ay naawa ka rin sa iyong kasamahan gaya ng pagkaawa ko sa iyo?’ 34 Galit na galit ang panginoon kaya ibinigay niya ang kanyang utusan sa mga tagapag¬pa¬hirap hang¬gang mabaya¬ran nito ang lahat ng utang.”

35 Idinagdag ni Jesus: “Ganito rin ang gagawin sa inyo ng aking Ama sa Langit kung hindi pata-tawarin ng bawat isa sa inyo mula sa puso ang kanyang kapatid.”   19     1 Nang tapos na si Jesus sa mga aral na ito, umalis siya sa Galilea at pu¬munta sa probinsya ng Judea sa kabilang ibayo ng Ilog Jordan. 

Reflection for August 11, Wednesday Memorial of Saint Clare, Virgin: Matthew 18:15-20

Gospel: Matthew 18:15-20

(Jesus said to his disciples) “If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have won over your brother. If he does not listen, take one or two others along with you, so that every fact may be established on the testimony of two or three witnesses. 

If he refuses to listen to them, tell the Church. If he refuses to listen even to the Church, then treat him as you would a Gentile or a tax collector. Amen, I say to you, whatever you bind on earth shall be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven.  

Again, amen, I say to you, if two of you agree on earth about anything for which they are to pray, it shall be granted to them by my heavenly Father. For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them.”

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Reflection:

The story is told about a mother who would always shout at her daughter whenever she commits mistake. This was her behavior until her child grew up, eventually the child learned to answer back. Thus, whenever the mother would shout at her, she would shout at her also to reciprocate the insult. When the daughter matured she became aloof and distant toward her mother.  

What is the importance of having a one on one talk with someone who offended you or someone who is at fault? You signify your sincerity to correct the person who is at fault. And you send a message that you want to immediately contain and solve the problem without grandstanding  and without offending anyone. By doing so you create a sincere message that you want to build bridges and not walls.  

Many of us commit the mistake of correcting a person in front of a crowd but this will not help heal a wayward behavior. This would only create a deeper emotional injury to the person who is at fault. Hence, instead of bringing him/her closer to correction, healing and reconciliation we instead are creating an emotional wound that may permanently injure the person.  

This teaching of Jesus on how to privately correct a person is very useful for all of us. For the reason that there are times that we let ourselves be taken over by our arrogance rather than our kindness and gentleness. What is the use of power if it will only divide and create deeper emotional injury? What is the use of correcting a person in full view of the public if it would only create deep-seated feeling of hatred that might result to something untoward?  

The way of Jesus in solving conflict is always the way of diplomacy, fraternal correction and gentleness. Never through arrogance and power tripping to propel one’s authority and influence. 

How do you exercise your power and authority? – Marino J. Dasmarinas