1Reflection for May 21 Friday of the Seventh Week of Easter: John 21:15-19

Gospel: John 21:15-19

After Jesus had revealed himself to his disciples and eaten breakfast with them, he said to Simon Peter, "Simon, son of John, do you love me more than these?" Simon Peter answered him, "Yes, Lord, you know that I love you." Jesus said to him, "Feed my lambs."  

He then said to Simon Peter a second time, "Simon, son of John, do you love me?" Simon Peter answered him, "Yes, Lord, you know that I love you." He said to him, "Tend my sheep." He said to him the third time, "Simon, son of John, do you love me?" Peter was distressed that he had said to him a third time, "Do you love me?" and he said to him, "Lord, you know everything; you know that I love you." 

Jesus said to him, "Feed my sheep. Amen, amen, I say to you, when you were younger, you used to dress yourself and go where you wanted; but when you grow old, you will stretch out your hands, and someone else will dress you and lead you where you do not want to go." He said this signifying by what kind of death he would glorify God. And when he had said this, he said to him, "Follow me."

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Reflection:

Do you know that true love always requires humility and sacrifice? 

There is always humility woven into the very meaning of love. We cannot truly love without being willing to sacrifice. We cannot love without emptying ourselves for the good of the one we love. Love is not merely spoken—it must be lived. It is always expressed through humble, self-giving action. 

In the Gospel, Jesus asked Simon Peter three times, “Do you love me?” And each time Peter responded with a “yes,” Jesus gave him a mission: “Feed my lambs,” “Tend my sheep,” and “Feed my sheep.” Every declaration of love was met with a call to serve—proof that love must be demonstrated through obedience and action. 

This is also what Jesus asks of us. If we say that we love Him, we must follow Him humbly. We must be willing to deny ourselves, carry our cross daily, and live a life of loving service. Why? Because humility and sacrifice are the very heart of true love. 

Love without humility and sacrifice is not genuine love—it is a self-centered imitation, rooted not in devotion to others, but in love of self. 

How do you love? — Marino J. Dasmarinas

Reflection for May 20 Thursday of the Seventh Week of Easter: John 17:20-26

Gospel: John 17:20-26

Lifting up his eyes to heaven, Jesus prayed saying: “I pray not only for these, but also for those who will believe in me through their word, so that they may all be one, as you, Father, are in me and I in you, that they also may be in us, that the world may believe that you sent me.  

And I have given them the glory you gave me, so that they may be one, as we are one, I in them and you in me, that they may be brought to perfection as one that the world may know that you sent me and that you loved them even as you loved me. Father, they are your gift to me.  

I wish that where I am they also may be with me, that they may see my glory that you gave me because you loved me before the foundation of the world. Righteous Father, the world also does not know you but I know you, and they know that you sent me I made known to them your name and I will make it known that the love with which you loved me may be in them and I in them.

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Reflection:

The story is told about a woman who engaged herself to caring for the poor in her community. She did this out of her concern for them, funds were hard to come by at times. Yet she was able to feed and nourish them because she believed that Jesus would always be there for her.  

We can always lean on Jesus all the time. He is always there ever ready to help us. Jesus loves us so much that He gave His very life for us on the cross. By doing so Jesus completed the mission that was given to Him by God. For our sake God gave the life of His only begotten son.  

God is never absent in our lives no matter who we are, no matter what we are going through and no matter the sins that we have done. He is always there ever ready to listen to us. God manifested Himself to us through Jesus so that we can reach out to Him anytime.  

Yet, there is also a responsibility that rest upon our shoulders. And this responsibility is to pay forward this infinite love of God. For the reason that our faith in God is never complete and it will never grow and mature unless we learn to share it. 

Have you already shared your faith? – Marino J. Dasmarinas

Ang Mabuting Balita para sa Mayo 20, Huwebes sa Ikapitong Linggo ng Pasko ng Pagkabuhay: Juan 17:20-26

Mabuting Balita: Juan 17:20-26

Tumingala si Jesus sa langit at nagsalita 20 Hindi lamang sila ang ipinapa­kiusap ko kundi pati ang mga nana­nalig sa akin sa pamamagitan ng kanilang salita. 21 Maging iisa sana ang lahat kung paanong nasa akin ka, Ama, at ako’y nasa ‘yo. Mapa­saatin din sana sila upang maniwala ang mundo na ikaw ang nag­sugo sa akin.  

22 Ibinigay ko naman sa kanila ang luwalhating ibinigay mo sa akin upang maging isa sila gaya nang tayo’y iisa: 23 ako sa kanila at ikaw sa akin. Kaya magaganap sila sa kaisahan, at maki­kilala ng mundo na ikaw ang nagsugo sa akin, at minahal ko sila kung pa­anong minahal mo ako. 24 Ama, sila ang ibinigay mo sa akin kaya niloloob kong kung nasaan ako’y makasama ko rin sila at mapansin nila ang bigay mo sa aking kaluwalhatian ko sapagkat minahal mo ako bago pa man nagkaroon ng mundo.  

25 Makatarungang Ama, hindi ka kilala ng mundo: kilala naman kita at kilala rin ng mga ito na ikaw ang nag­sugo sa akin. 26 Ipinagbigay-alam ko sa kanila ang Ngalan mo at ipinagbibigay-alam pa upang mapasakanila ang pag­mamahal mo sa akin at ako ri’y mapa­sa­kanila.”

Reflection for May 19 Wednesday of the Seventh Week of Easter: John 17:11b-19

Gospel: John 17:11b-19

Jesus raised his eyes to heaven and said, “Father, the hour has come. Give glory to your son, so that your son may glorify you, just as you gave him authority over all people, so that your son may give eternal life to all you gave him. Now this is eternal life, that they should know you, the only true God, and the one whom you sent, Jesus Christ. I glorified you on earth by accomplishing the work that you gave me to do. Now glorify me, Father, with you, with the glory that I had with you before the world began.  

“I revealed your name to those whom you gave me out of the world. They belonged to you, and you gave them to me, and they have kept your word. Now they know that everything you gave me is from you, because the words you gave to me I have given to them, and they accepted them and truly understood that I came from you, and they have believed that you sent me. I pray for them. I do not pray for the world but for the ones you have given me, because they are yours, and everything of mine is yours and everything of yours is mine, and I have been glorified in them. And now I will no longer be in the world, but they are in the world, while I am coming to you.”

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Reflection:

The story is told about a man who would always pray  and his prayer would always be for himself alone. 

When he died the man was ushered by an angel to a room full of the things that he prayed for.   The man thanked the angel for giving him the things that he wanted. Then he noticed that he was alone, so he asked the angel: “Why am I alone? 

The angel told him, you’re alone because you would always pray for yourself only when you were still alive. You never bothered to pray for others, your prayers was always for yourself.  As Jesus was set to leave HIS disciples he prayed for their welfare, that they would always be in God’s protection and care. 

How about us when we pray? Is it always us starring in our prayers? Or we never bother to pray for ourselves instead  we pray for those we love and care. Because we believe that God knows everything about us including our needs.   

God is an all knowing God, He knows everything about us including our needs and prayers for Him. Therefore, it would be better if instead of praying for ourselves we instead pray for others. This does not mean that we will not anymore have our own personal prayers and petitions before God.   

We would still have our prayers before God but we put forward first the interest and needs of others before our own. For God doesn’t want us to become persons for ourselves only; HE always wants us to become a person for others.  

Which kind of person are you a person for others or a person for yourself only? – Marino J. Dasmarinas   

1Reflection for May 18 Tuesday of the Seventh Week of Easter: John 17:1-11a

Gospel: John 17:1-11a

Jesus raised his eyes to heaven and said, “Father, the hour has come. Give glory to your son, so that your son may glorify you, just as you gave him authority over all people, so that your son may give eternal life to all you gave him. Now this is eternal life, that they should know you, the only true God, and the one whom you sent, Jesus Christ. I glorified you on earth by accomplishing the work that you gave me to do. Now glorify me, Father, with you, with the glory that I had with you before the world began. 

“I revealed your name to those whom you gave me out of the world. They belonged to you, and you gave them to me, and they have kept your word. Now they know that everything you gave me is from you, because the words you gave to me I have given to them, and they accepted them and truly understood that I came from you, and they have believed that you sent me. I pray for them. I do not pray for the world but for the ones you have given me, because they are yours, and everything of mine is yours and everything of yours is mine, and I have been glorified in them. And now I will no longer be in the world, but they are in the world, while I am coming to you.

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Reflection:

What is the usual method of our prayers? Is it spontaneous prayer or we follow a certain pattern? Whichever it is, what is important is we put our heart in our prayers before God. For a prayer that connects with God is a prayer that originates from our hearts. 

We read in our gospel for this Tuesday that Jesus is praying before God. It is a personal prayer for Himself and at the same time a prayer also for His disciples and the people that He dearly loved.

If Jesus prayed to God, we too ought to pray also to God. We pray for our personal petitions before Him. For example prayers for strength to face our daily challenges. Prayers for enlightenment, prayers for us not to have any form of hatred in our hearts and so forth.

We also become one with God when we pray. We also allow God to heal us from our sickness most especially emotional and spiritual sickness. This is for the reason that through our prayers we allow God to dwell and move within us. Notice that after we pray we feel light and we feel better.

Let us beseech God to heal us of anything that ails us. And let us beseech God to give us the grace of connection with Him whenever we pray. Why? Because life without prayer and connection with God in this world is pure emptiness. – Marino J. Dasmarinas

Reflection for May 17 Monday of the Seventh Week of Easter: John 16:29-33

Gospel: John 16:29-33

The disciples said to Jesus, “Now you are talking plainly, and not in any figure of speech. Now we realize that you know everything and that you do not need to have anyone question you. Because of this we believe that you came from God.” 

Jesus answered them, “Do you believe now? Behold, the hour is coming and has arrived when each of you will be scattered to his own home and you will leave me alone. But I am not alone, because the Father is with me. I have told you this so that you might have peace in me. In the world you will have trouble, but take courage, I have conquered the world.”

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Reflection:

Do you want to have peace in your life? 

If this world gives us nothing but troubles, worries and sickness Jesus is always there to counter these worldly negativities with His promise of peace. Many of us think that the things of this world would give us peace, but it will not. 

The more that we tie our search for peace in this world the more that we would not find it. Why? Because this world will never give us peace what this world gives us is disturbance and chaos. So, where can we find real peace of mind? We can only find this real peace of mind in Jesus nobody would give this to us except Jesus alone. 

But how many of us have experienced this peace of Jesus? Not many perhaps and the obvious reason is we only remember Jesus when we are in dire need of Him. Or yes we remember HIM but when temptation comes we easily betray Him for the pleasurable temptations of this world. 

Why not change this cycle? Why not make Jesus our first priority so that we could finally feel His peaceful presence in our lives? And once we feel the peaceful presence of Jesus in our lives we already are complete and we lack nothing. – Marino J. Dasmarinas 

Reflection for Sunday May 16, Solemnity of the Ascension of the Lord/World Communications Day: Mark 16:15-20

Gospel: Mark 16:15-20

Jesus appeared to the Eleven and said to them: “Go into the whole world and proclaim the Gospel to every creature. Whoever believes and is baptized will be saved; whoever does not believe will be condemned. These signs will accompany those who believe: in my name they will drive out demons,they will speak new languages. 

They will pick up serpents with their hands, and if they drink any deadly thing, it will not harm them. They will lay hands on the sick, and they will recover.” Then the Lord Jesus, after he spoke to them, was taken up into heaven and took his seat at the right hand of God. But they went forth and preached everywhere, while the Lord worked with them and confirmed the word through accompanying signs.

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Reflection:

Do you take time to share in whatever way possible what you know about Jesus? 

The gospel for this Sunday is the end of the earthly ministry of Jesus and the start of the ministry of the apostles. We all know that the apostles were very successful in their mission of evangelization. But it was not easy for they worked very hard and except for one all of them died for their mission.    

It’s so easy to remain in our comfort zones and just live the lifestyle that we want. We do everything for ourselves and we tend to forget God and our mission to spread the gospel as well.  Then when we are at the sunset of our lives we will find out that nothing really matters except God. Yes, at the end nothing really matters except God alone: Money will not matter influence and power will not matter either. 

God wants us to spread the good news in whatever way possible. He wants us to proclaim our faith not necessarily by words alone but through our actions as well.  If we can proclaim our faith thru our actions that would be much better since actions speaks volumes than words.  

As the Lord ascends to heaven He is gently reminding you about your baptismal mission. Which is to help the Lord spread the faith through your words and actions. - Marino J. Dasmarinas     

1Reflection for May 15 Saturday of the Sixth Week of Easter: John 16:23b-28

Gospel: John 16:23b-28

Jesus said to his disciples: Amen, amen, I say to you, whatever you ask the Father in my name he will give you. Until now you have not asked anything in my name; ask and you will receive, so that your joy may be complete.  

“I have told you this in figures of speech. The hour is coming when I will no longer speak to you in figures but I will tell you clearly about the Father. On that day you will ask in my name, and I do not tell you that I will ask the Father for you. For the Father himself loves you, because you have loved me and have come to believe that I came from God. I came from the Father and have come into the world. Now I am leaving the world and going back to the Father.

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Reflection:

 How does it feel to say goodbye? It’s heartbreaking to say the least, as much as possible we don’t want to hear goodbyes. But goodbyes are for real and part of life. But why is it that we don’t want to hear goodbyes and we don’t want to be separated from the person that we love? Because goodbyes and separations entails loneliness and sadness.  

Perhaps the disciples in the gospel were also feeling lonely and sad. Just imagine being there in that situation where Jesus was already saying His goodbye to them. If we were with the apostles we surely would be lonely and sad also. But unlike human goodbyes which is often times permanent and leaves us empty. Jesus’ goodbye was not permanent and Jesus goodbye to His disciples did not left His disciples empty.  

Jesus assured His disciples that after He left them they could still invoke His name when they pray for something to the Father. And through His name they can have whatever they ask in prayer to the Father. 

Everything is possible with Jesus we can have whatever we want to have for as long as we ask Jesus’ help. The impossible becomes very much possible when we pray with faith to God through Jesus. – Marino J. Dasmarinas 

Ang Mabuting Balita para sa Mayo 15 Sabado sa Ikaanim na Linggo ng Pasko ng Pagkabuhay: Juan 16:23b-28

Mabuting Balita: Juan 16:23b-28

Noong panahong iyon, sinabi ni Hesus sa kanyang mga alagad: Sa araw na iyon, wala na kayong itatanong sa akin sapagkat talagang-tala­gang sinasabi ko sa inyo na ipagkakaloob sa inyo anumang hingin ninyo sa Ama sa Ngalan ko. 24 Hanggang ngayo’y wala pa kayong hiningi sa Ngalan ko. Humingi kayo at tatanggap kayo upang maganap ang inyong kaga­lakan.  

25 Sa mga paghahambing ko ipina­ngungusap sa inyo ang mga ito. Ngunit may oras na sasapit na hindi sa pagha­hambing ako mangungusap sa inyo kundi lantaran ko nang ihahayag sa inyo ang tungkol sa Ama. 26 Sa araw na ’yon, sa ngalan ko kayo hihingi; hindi ko sinasabi sa inyo na makikiusap ako sa Ama alang-alang sa inyo 27 pagkat iniibig kayo mismo ng Ama dahil iniibig n’yo ako at pinaniniwalaang sa Diyos ako galing. 28 Galing ako sa Ama at dumating sa mundo. Muli kong iniiwan ang mundo at papunta sa Ama.

1Reflection for May 14 Friday Feast of Saint Matthias, Apostle: John 15:9-17

Gospel: John 15:9-17

Jesus said to his disciples: “As the Father loves me, so I also love you. Remain in my love. If you keep my commandments, you will remain in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commandments and remain in his love.  

“I have told you this so that my joy might be in you and your joy might be complete. This is my commandment: love one another as I love you. No one has greater love than this, to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. You are my friends if you do what I command you.  

I no longer call you slaves, because a slave does not know what his master is doing. I have called you friends, because I have told you everything I have heard from my Father. It was not you who chose me, but I who chose you and appointed you to go and bear fruit that will remain, so that whatever you ask the Father in my name he may give you. This I command you: love one another.”

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Reflection:

Have you been in love? 

Many of us have fallen in love already and many have fallen out of love as well. For those who are still in love up to this very day, say for example to your spouse   notwithstanding the hurts and pains. The love that you have in your heart is somewhat near to the love of God. 

The love of God is a love that is forgiving. It’s not a discriminating love for it does not look at the physical attributes, sins and the social standing of a person. For the love of God is a love that restores and heals.  

In the gospel, Jesus commands us, “love one another as I love you (John 15:12).” Here lies the challenge for all of us because if God’s love is encompassing our love for our fellowmen should be encompassing also. 

We should be capable of loving even those who’ve hurt us and those who do not love us in return. If we truly love Jesus, we have no other choice but to love like Jesus. – Marino  J. Dasmarinas

1Reflection for May 13 Thursday of the Sixth Week of Easter: John 16:16-20

Gospel: John 16:16-20

Jesus said to his disciples: "A little while and you will no longer see me, and again a little while later and you will see me." So some of his disciples said to one another, "What does this mean that he is saying to us, 'A little while and you will not see me, and again a little while and you will see me,' and 'Because I am going to the Father'?" 

So they said, "What is this 'little while' of which he speaks? We do not know what he means." Jesus knew that they wanted to ask him, so he said to them, "Are you discussing with one another what I said, 'A little while and you will not see me, and again a little while and you will see me'? Amen, amen, I say to you, you will weep and mourn, while the world rejoices; you will grieve, but your grief will become joy."

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Reflection:

Are you afraid of separation? 

Separation from someone we have deeply loved or even idolized is one of the most painful emotions we can ever experience. When a loved one passes away, it can feel as though a part of our very being dies with them. From that moment on, something in us feels incomplete. Such is the heart-wrenching weight of certain separations. 

In today’s Gospel, Jesus is preparing His disciples for His departure. He knows that soon, He will be arrested, tortured, and crucified. He is saying goodbye—not out of fear, but out of love, to prepare their hearts. Yet He offers them hope: “In a little while, you will see me.” Jesus was referring to His resurrection, the glorious rising from the dead three days after His crucifixion. 

Unlike the finality of earthly separation, the disciples’ parting from Jesus was only temporary. He returned—victorious over death—to assure them, and all of us, that separation from Him is never permanent. 

As followers of Christ today, we are never truly separated from our Lord. Through the power of the Holy Spirit and the grace of the sacraments, we are constantly united with Him. He is alive and present within us—especially when we open our hearts to His Word, live out His teachings, and express humble, selfless love to others. 

Let us not be afraid of separation, for the love of Christ bridges all distances. In prayer, in humility, and in love—we remain close to Him, and He remains within us. — Marino J. Dasmarinas

Reflection for May 12 Wednesday of the Sixth Week of Easter: John 16:12-15

Gospel: John 16:12-15

Jesus said to his disciples: “I have much more to tell you, but you cannot bear it now. But when he comes, the Spirit of truth, he will guide you to all truth. He will not speak on his own, but he will speak what he hears, and will declare to you the things that are coming. 

 He will glorify me, because he will take from what is mine and declare it to you. Everything that the Father has is mine; for this reason I told you that he will take from what is mine and declare it to you.”

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Reflection:

What is the impediment that prevents us from discerning the presence of the Holy Spirit? It’s when we live our lives away from the teachings of the church. It’s when we create our own rules to follow instead of following the rules of the church. It’s when we follow the teachings of the church based on our convenience. 

 For example, the obligation of going to Holy Mass every Sunday. Many of us do not follow this Sunday obligation we instead follow our own self-created rule/s. This is the reason why we just go to Holy Mass when we feel like going. This kind of behavior prevents us from discerning the presence of the Holy Spirit in our lives. However, due to the Covid-19 pandemic many of us are not able to go to Holy Mass in lieu of this we attend online Holy Mass. But many don’t have access with internet perhaps the best that we can do is to pray the Holy Rosary or we can read the Holy Mass reading for the day which we can easily find in the bible.  

The Holy Spirit acts as our honest and true counsellor who will never dare tell us to distort the truth. In fact it will tell us to speak the truth no matter who gets hurt. It will forever counsel us to do good and not to do evil to extend love and forgiveness instead of hatred and unforgiveness.  

This is the reason why we are bothered by our conscience whenever we tell lies and do wrong. And this feeling of guilt does not fade away until we tell the truth and correct the wrong/s that we have committed. 

Do you have an awareness of the presence of the Holy Spirit in your life? Live your faith and be faithful to its teachings for this is the beginning of your journey with God the Holy Spirit.  – Marino J. Dasmarinas

Reflection for May 11 Tuesday of the Sixth Week of Easter: John 16:5-11

Gospel: John 16:5-11

Jesus said to his disciples: "Now I am going to the one who sent me, and not one of you asks me, 'Where are you going?' But because I told you this, grief has filled your hearts. But I tell you the truth, it is better for you that I go. For if I do not go, the Advocate will not come to you. But if I go, I will send him to you.  

And when he comes he will convict the world in regard to sin and righteousness and condemnation: sin, because they do not believe in me; righteousness, because I am going to the Father and you will no longer see me; condemnation, because the ruler of this world has been condemned."

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Reflection:    

Have you ever experienced saying goodbye? 

Saying goodbye—especially a final farewell to a loved one or a dear friend—is one of life’s most heart-wrenching experiences. In our humanity, we often wish that goodbyes never had to exist. But the truth remains: each of us will face a moment when we must say goodbye, at a time appointed by God, according to His divine will. 

Yet even in the face of that reality, we are invited to live lives of meaning and purpose. Let us not allow our goodbye to be easily forgotten. Instead, may we strive to leave behind a legacy of love, kindness, and faith. 

Let us sow goodness each day—small acts of compassion, words of encouragement, silent prayers for others—that will live on in the hearts of those we leave behind. So when our time comes, the memory of our deeds will speak of a life well-lived in the service of God and neighbor. 

In today’s Gospel, Jesus was gently preparing His disciples for His departure. He was saying goodbye—not with despair, but with love and the promise of the Holy Spirit. Over two thousand years have passed, yet Jesus remains alive in our hearts, still transforming lives. Why? Because He offered the greatest act of love: laying down His life for our salvation. 

As followers of Christ, we are called to do the same—not in grand gestures, but in daily acts of selflessness and faithfulness. May we, like Jesus, leave behind a lasting imprint of God’s love in this world. And when our final goodbye comes, may others remember not just our name, but the Christ they encountered through our lives. – Marino J. Dasmarinas

Reflection for May 10 Monday of the Sixth Week of Easter: John 15 26—16:4a

Gospel: John 15:26—16:4a

Jesus said to his disciples: “When the Advocate comes whom I will send you from the Father, the Spirit of truth who proceeds from the Father, he will testify to me. And you also testify, because you have been with me from the beginning.     

“I have told you this so that you may not fall away. They will expel you from the synagogues; in fact, the hour is coming when everyone who kills you will think he is offering worship to God. They will do this because they have not known either the Father or me. I have told you this so that when their hour comes you may remember that I told you.”

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Reflection:

The story is told of a man who longed deeply to feel the presence of the Holy Spirit in his life. He would often whisper, “Come, Holy Spirit, I need You.” He repeated this prayer countless times—but still, he felt nothing. 

Simply calling upon the Holy Spirit is not enough. Yes, it is good to invite Him, but we must go beyond the words. We must live lives that are truly attuned to the teachings of our Lord Jesus. We must not only speak His words—we must live and breathe them, so to speak. 

As we strive each day to walk in the footsteps of Christ, something beautiful begins to happen. Slowly but surely, we start to feel the quiet, empowering presence of the Advocate—the Holy Spirit. He does not rush in with fanfare, but gently fills the soul that is faithful and sincere. 

Let us therefore live out the Gospel boldly and joyfully. Let us not be afraid to share it, live it, and be transformed by it. For it is only by living the teachings of Jesus that we can truly discern and experience the abiding presence of the Holy Spirit in our lives. 

In the Gospel, Jesus speaks to His disciples about the coming of the Advocate—none other than the Holy Spirit. He assures them that the Spirit will be given to them at the right time, according to His will. What Jesus asks of them—and of us—is simple but profound: to remain faithful to Him and to His word. 

May we never forget that inviting the Holy Spirit into our lives is a beautiful beginning, but it is not the end. To truly welcome Him, we must also live in faithful obedience to Christ. When we do, we will indeed feel His presence within us—the Holy Spirit, our Comforter, our Guide, our Advocate. – Marino J. Dasmarinas