On a sabbath Jesus went to dine at the
home of one of the leading Pharisees, and the people there were observing him
carefully.
He told a parable to those who had been
invited, noticing how they were choosing the places of honor at the table.
“When you are invited by someone to a wedding banquet, do not recline at table
in the place of honor.
A more distinguished guest than you may
have been invited by him, and the host who invited both of you may
approach you and say, ‘Give your place to this man,’ and then you would proceed
with embarrassment to take the lowest place.
Rather, when you are invited, go and take
the lowest place so that when the host comes to you he may say, ‘My friend,
move up to a higher position.’ Then you will enjoy the esteem of your
companions at the table.
For every one who exalts himself will be
humbled, but the one who humbles himself will be exalted.” Then he said to the
host who invited him, “When you hold a lunch or a dinner, do not invite your
friends or your brothers or your relatives or your wealthy neighbors, in case
they may invite you back and you have repayment.
Rather, when you hold a banquet, invite
the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind; blessed indeed will you be because
of their inability to repay you. For you will be repaid at the resurrection of
the righteous.”
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Reflection:
A man was aspiring to be the leader of his
group, so he said to himself: “I will talk a lot and flaunt what I know so that
they will notice me.” So he did. He was always talking and very opinionated,
with the end in mind that he would be noticed by his peers and be anointed as
their leader.
But when election day came, he was not
chosen. Instead, the one who was elected was the quiet and humble member. What
is the advantage of a humble person over an egotistical one? The truth is,
people are naturally drawn to the humble, because humility reflects a heart
that is genuine, approachable, and pure.
The humble person never craves the
spotlight. He is content to remain in the background, faithfully doing the
tasks entrusted to him. If others happen to notice his good works, he quietly
appreciates it without pride or boasting.
When offered a position of prominence, he
does not rush to accept; instead, he discerns carefully, seeking to know if it
is truly God’s will. The humble person is not boastful, not egotistical, and
not self-seeking. His strength is found in his quiet trust in God.
In the Gospel for this Sunday, Jesus
speaks about humility. He tells us that if we are invited to a wedding
banquet—or any banquet, for that matter—we should choose to sit at the back and
not in the place of honor. This is not because we are inferior or bound by
insecurity, but because humility is the right posture before God and before
others. Then, if the host calls us forward, we rise in obedience, not in
arrogance.
But what if a person does not yet have
humility? Could he still learn to embrace this virtue? Absolutely yes!
Conversion is always possible if one is willing to follow the gentle leadings
of Jesus. Every day, the Lord invites us to lay aside our pride, our arrogance,
and our thirst for recognition, and instead to walk the path of humility.
Would you walk the path of humility? –
Marino J. Dasmarinas
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