Reflection for Friday June 13 Memorial of Saint Anthony of Padua, Priest and Doctor of the Church: Matthew 5:27-32

Gospel: Matthew 5:27-32

Jesus said to his disciples: “You have heard that it was said, You shall not commit adultery. But I say to you, everyone who looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away. 

It is better for you to lose one of your members than to have your whole body thrown into Gehenna. And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one of your members than to have your whole body go into Gehenna. 

“It was also said, Whoever divorces his wife must give her a bill of divorce. But I say to you, whoever divorces his wife (unless the marriage is unlawful) causes her to commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.”

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Reflection:

Why is there adultery?

It is because we no longer hold sacred the sanctity of the Sacrament of Matrimony. Marriage, once seen as a divine covenant sealed before God, is now often treated as a mere contract—something we feel free to break whenever it no longer serves our selfish desires. Why are many no longer afraid to violate their marriage covenant?

It is because we have drifted away from the love of God. When God is no longer at the center of our lives, we lose our moral compass. The reverence we once had for His commandments fades, and so too does our fear of sin.

At the heart of adultery is the absence of godly values—values that should be instilled early in life. And who is responsible for planting these values in the hearts of children? The answer is clear: the parents. 

Sadly, many parents today are more concerned with showering their children with material things—money, the latest gadgets, and other worldly possessions—than with nourishing their souls with the Word of God.

Children raised in such an environment may know about God, but they do not grow up with His values rooted in their hearts. They may be informed of His presence, but they do not fear Him, honor Him, or seek to live according to His will.

So what must we do?

As parents and as believers, we must return to our sacred duty. We must teach our children to love, fear, and obey God. We must lead them by example—by living faithfully and being steadfast in our own marriage vows. Parents are the first and most powerful teachers of faith. If children see their parents committed to their marriage and faithful to God, they too will be inspired to live lives of purity and commitment.

In today’s Gospel, we witness how deeply Jesus detests adultery. He does so not out of anger, but out of love—for He knows that marriage is meant to be a holy union, a lifelong journey of love, faithfulness, and sacrifice. It is not a union that ends the moment temptation arrives or someone more “desirable” appears.

Adultery brings not just momentary pain, but a lifelong spiritual burden. It is a wound on the soul that can lead to years of guilt, brokenness, and separation from God. Let us never forget: adultery is not merely a betrayal of one’s spouse—it is a betrayal of the covenant with God Himself.

May we recommit ourselves to upholding the sacredness of marriage, and may we ask the Lord for the grace to remain faithful—whether as spouses, parents, or future husbands and wives. May we always walk in the light of His love and truth. — Marino J. Dasmarinas