Then the mother of the sons of Zebedee approached
Jesus with her sons and did him homage, wishing to ask him for something. He
said to her, “What do you wish?” She answered him, “Command that these two sons
of mine sit, one at your right and the other at your left, in your kingdom.”
Jesus said in reply, “You do not know what you are asking. Can you drink the
chalice that I am going to drink?”
They said to him, “We can.” He replied, “My chalice
you will indeed drink, but to sit at my right and at my left, this is not mine
to give but is for those for whom it has been prepared by my Father.” When the
ten heard this, they became indignant at the two brothers. But Jesus summoned
them and said, “You know that the rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and
the great ones make their authority over them felt.
But it shall not be so among you. Rather, whoever wishes to be great among you shall be your servant; whoever wishes to be first among you shall be your slave. Just so, the Son of Man did not come to be served but to serve and to give his life as a ransom for many.”
Surely it is not our titles, positions, achievements, or any worldly recognition. These may matter in the eyes of the world, but before the Lord, they carry no weight unless they are offered with humble hearts. What makes us worthy in His eyes is our willingness to serve quietly, faithfully, and lovingly—without expecting applause, praise, or reward in return. It is our readiness to decrease so that He may increase.
Why do we follow Jesus in the first place?
Is it so that we may be noticed in our communities? Is it so that we may gain influence, authority, or admiration? If we are honest with ourselves, we may admit that at times our motives become mixed. Sometimes, instead of lifting Jesus higher, we subtly lift ourselves. Instead of pointing others to Him, we point them to our accomplishments.
Yet true discipleship calls us to something deeper. It calls us to serve and then quietly step aside. It invites us to do good and allow God to receive the glory. Can we not fade into the background after we have served? Can we not trust that when we lower ourselves, God Himself will work in ways far greater than we ever could?
Our gentle and merciful God does not need our self-promotion. He asks only for our surrendered hearts. When we let Him take the forefront, He draws souls not because of our greatness, but because of His grace shining through our humility.
Many of us hesitate to embrace humility because we mistake it for weakness. But humility is not weakness—it is strength under control. It is quiet confidence rooted in God. It is powerful—so powerful that its impact lingers in the hearts of those who witness it long after words fade away.
So let us examine our hearts. When we serve, do we truly seek God’s glory, or are we quietly hoping for our own? When the work is done, are we willing to step back and let Him shine?
Are we ready to follow Jesus not for recognition, not for influence, but simply for love—content to remain unseen, as long as He is seen?—Marino J. Dasmarinas











