And on coming from the marketplace they do not eat
without purifying themselves. And there are many other things that they have
traditionally observed, the purification of cups and jugs and kettles and
beds.) So the Pharisees and scribes questioned him, “Why do your disciples not
follow the tradition of the elders but instead eat a meal with unclean hands?”
He responded, “Well did Isaiah prophesy about you hypocrites, as it is
written:
This people honors me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me; In vain do they worship me, teaching as doctrines human precepts. You disregard God’s commandment but cling to human tradition.” He went on to say, “How well you have set aside the commandment of God in order to uphold your tradition!
For Moses said, Honor your father and your mother, and
Whoever curses father or mother shall die. Yet you say, ‘If someone says to
father or mother, “Any support you might have had from me is qorban”’ (meaning,
dedicated to God), you allow him to do nothing more for his father or mother.
You nullify the word of God in favor of your tradition that you have handed on.
And you do many such things.”
Oftentimes, we may find ourselves insisting that others follow certain rules, standards, or traditions. In the Gospel, Jesus criticized the hypocrisy of the Pharisees and scribes because they insisted on following the tradition of washing their hands before eating. Yet Jesus knew them very well. He knew that while they were good at pushing people to follow their traditions and man-made laws, they themselves were not faithfully following the very laws they had created.
What made Jesus an extraordinary leader was not only His wisdom but His example. He led by the way He lived. There was no hypocrisy in Him. He practiced what He preached. His words and His actions were one. As His followers, are we not sometimes—or even oftentimes—like the Pharisees and scribes?
We can be good at telling others what to do, yet we ourselves may struggle to do what we expect from others. In our families, for example, we may set rules and boundaries for our children, yet we ourselves may fail to live by the same standards we set. In our workplaces, communities, and even in our faith life, we may speak what is right, yet find it difficult to live it out consistently.
Oftentimes, we lose the respect of others not because of what we say, but because of how we live. When our words and actions do not match, trust is weakened. But when we strive to live what we believe, when we humbly try to align our actions with our words, we become living witnesses of truth, integrity, and faith.
Jesus shows us that true leadership and true discipleship begin in the heart and are proven through our daily actions. He calls all of us not to perfection, but to sincerity—to a life where we continually try to put His teachings into action through how we think, speak, and live.
When we strive to live this way, we do not only earn respect—we also give glory to God through our lives.
Are we willing to allow Jesus to transform us from people who only speak what is right into people who truly live what is right, even when it is difficult and unseen? —Marino J. Dasmarinas





