Then Jesus said to his disciples, “Whoever wishes to come after me must deny himself, take up his cross, and follow me. For whoever wishes to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will find it. What profit would there be for one to gain the whole world and forfeit his life?
Or what can one give in exchange for his life? For the Son of Man will come with his angels in his Father’s glory, and then he will repay all according to his conduct.”
This
story reminds us that following God does not mean that we will have a life free
from worries, trials, and suffering. Faith is not a promise that we will never
experience pain; rather, it is the assurance that we will never face our pain
alone because God is with us.
When
Jesus told His disciples that He would suffer greatly and be killed, Peter
rebuked Him and said, “God forbid, Lord! No such thing shall ever happen to
You.” What was in Peter’s mind when he said this? Perhaps Peter thought that
because Jesus was the Son of God, He should be exempt from suffering and could
simply avoid everything that would cause Him pain.
Like
Peter, we sometimes have the same mindset. We may think that because we know
Jesus as our Lord and Savior, we should somehow be protected from suffering. We
attend Holy Mass, read the Bible, pray, and try to do good things for others.
Yet, when difficulties come, we may wonder: “Why is this happening to us? Have we not been faithful to God?”
But
our faith is not a shield that prevents suffering from entering our lives.
Instead, faith gives us the strength to face suffering with courage, hope, and
trust in God. Carrying our crosses is part of following Jesus. We may not
always understand why certain trials come our way, but we can trust that God
can use even our deepest wounds and greatest struggles to strengthen our faith
and draw us closer to Him.
We
will not fully comprehend the important role that Jesus plays in our lives if
we are unwilling to walk with Him through the sufferings, challenges, and the humps and bumps of life. Sometimes, it is precisely in our darkest moments that we
discover how deeply God loves us. When everything seems to be falling apart,
God may be quietly teaching us to hold on to Him more firmly.
Let
us remember that before gold becomes a precious piece of jewelry, it must first
be purified by intense fire. Before a diamond becomes a valuable gem, it goes
through cutting, polishing, and refining. In the same way, our faith is
constantly being refined. The trials we experience can become instruments
through which God purifies our hearts, strengthens our trust, and teaches us to
depend not on our own strength but on His grace.
Therefore,
let us not be surprised when we suffer, and let us not immediately question God
whenever we experience failures, disappointments, and difficulties in life.
Instead, let us remain steadfast in our faith. When our crosses become heavy,
let us cling more firmly to Jesus. When our prayers seem unanswered, let us
continue praying. When we experience failure, let us rise again with hope. And
when we feel that we can no longer carry our burdens, let us remember that
Jesus walks beside us and invites us to place everything into His loving hands.
Our
faith is not proven by the absence of suffering but by our willingness to
remain faithful in the midst of it. The fire may be painful, the refining may
be difficult, and the road may sometimes seem unbearably long, but God can
bring something beautiful out of what we are going through.
So,
when suffering comes our way, will we run away from Jesus because the cross is
heavy—or will we cling to Him even more tightly, trusting that He can transform
our suffering into a deeper faith, a stronger heart, and a life that reflects
His love?—Marino J. Dasmarinas





