Then the
angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary, for you have found favor with God.
Behold, you will conceive in your womb and bear a son, and you shall name him
Jesus. He will be great and will be called Son of the Most High, and the Lord
God will give him the throne of David his father, and he will rule over the
house of Jacob forever, and of his Kingdom there will be no end.”
But Mary said to the angel, “How can this be, since I have no relations with a man?” And the angel said to her in reply, “The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you. Therefore the child to be born will be called holy, the Son of God.
And behold, Elizabeth, your relative, has
also conceived a son in her old age, and this is the sixth month for her who
was called barren; for nothing will be impossible for God.” Mary said, “Behold,
I am the handmaid of the Lord. May it be done to me according to your word.”
Then the angel departed from her.
The Memorial formally began in 1954 under Pope Pius XII, but its history go back to early Christian devotion. It was later moved to August 22 to highlight Mary’s Assumption and her sharing in her Son’s glory as Queen.
Do we always humble ourselves before God?
There is something beautiful in the Blessed Mother that many of us may not always have: a deep humility and docility to follow the will of God. Mary teaches us what it truly means to listen, trust, and surrender when God calls us to something beyond our own plans and understanding.
After the angel Gabriel told Mary everything about the Lord’s plan for her, the Blessed Mother simply said, “Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord. May it be done to me according to your word” (Luke 1:38). With these words, Mary placed her life completely in God’s hands. She did not demand to know everything that would happen. She did not insist on having her own way. She simply believed, trusted, and surrendered.
God also speaks to us in so many ways. He speaks to us through His Word, through prayer, through the teachings of the Church, and even through the people and events that He allows to enter our lives. Sometimes His voice may gently challenge us to change, to forgive, to let go, or to choose what is right. Yet how often do we ignore that voice because it does not agree with what we want?
What if the Blessed Mother had chosen to ignore the angel and simply continued with her own plans? What if she had allowed fear, uncertainty, or inconvenience to prevent her from saying yes to God? But Mary chose to listen. She trusted God even when she could not see the whole path before her.
Listening to the voice of God is something that many of us struggle with today. Yes, we pray. Yes, we go to church and attend Holy Mass. Yet, more often than not, it is still our own will that we follow rather than the will of God. We may pray for God to bless our plans, but are we also willing to surrender our plans when He asks us to follow a different path?
Perhaps this is why we sometimes fall into sin and find ourselves burdened with problems that could have been avoided. We hear God’s voice, but we choose not to listen. We know what is good and right, but we sometimes allow our desires, attachments, pride, or the influence of others to lead us in another direction. The teachings of the Church continually remind us to choose what is good, right, and pleasing to God, yet we can still choose to follow our own desires.
The Blessed Mother did not resist God’s will. She did not allow fear to have the final word. She believed, trusted, and humbly submitted herself to God’s plan. Her fiat—her loving “yes”to God—reminds us that genuine faith is not simply about believing in God; it is also about trusting Him enough to surrender our will to His.
And God’s will for us is not something meant to destroy our happiness. He calls us to choose what is right, to turn away from sin, to forgive, to love, to do what is good, and to have the courage to distance ourselves from people, situations, and influences that continually lead us away from Him.
Perhaps today God is speaking to us about something we have been refusing to surrender. Perhaps He is asking us to forgive someone, to leave behind a sinful habit, to make peace, to choose what is right, or simply to trust Him with something that has been troubling our hearts.
Like the Blessed Mother, may we have the humility to listen and the courage to say yes to God—even when His will is different from our own. May we learn to pray not only, “Lord, bless what I want,” but also, “Lord, teach me to want what You want.”
When God’s will is different from our own, are we willing to let go of our plans, humble our hearts, and say with Mary, “May it be done to me according to Your word”? And when God speaks to us today, will we listen—or will we continue choosing our own way?— Marino J. Dasmarinas




