Do to others as you would have them do to you. For if you love those who love you what credit is that to you? Even sinners love those who love them. And if you do good to those who do good to you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners do the same. If you lend money to those from whom you expect repayment, what credit is that to you? Even sinners lend to sinners, and get back the same amount. But rather, love your enemies and do good to them, and lend expecting nothing back; then your reward will be great and you will be children of the Most High, for he himself is kind to the ungrateful and the wicked. Be merciful, just as also your Father is merciful.
“Stop judging and you will not
be judged. Stop condemning and you will not be condemned. Forgive and you will
be forgiven. Give and gifts will be given to you; a good measure, packed
together, shaken down, and overflowing, will be poured into your lap. For the
measure with which you measure will in return be measured out to you.
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Reflection:
The story is told about a man that died who was refused entry into the pearly gates. So he asked the angel manning the pearly gates for the reason and the angel told him that he was very judgmental when he was still alive. Therefore, the man walked away from the gates of heaven with a forlorn face.
Why do we easily or quickly judge? Because we lack love and forgiveness in our hearts. Otherwise if there’s plenty of love and forgiveness we would not dare judge anyone because we know that the moment we judge we also invite judgment upon us.
What would it take for us not to become judgmental to those who have wronged us? We have to love as the Lord loved us and this love is not an ordinary love because this kind of love is a radical love. Which means unconditional love, love which is unmotivated by the possibility of reciprocation or reward. Radical love is a love set afire by forgiveness, compassion, and understanding.
Because this would require us not to look at the faults and shortcomings of those people who did us wrong. This would instead lead us to remember their good side which they have aplenty but we refuse to think about it since we are enslaved by our hate.
Next time when there is a temptation for us to pull out the dangerous sword of judgment let us pause for a little while. And force our minds to recall the many good side of the person whom we are judging.
Are you quick to judge? – Marino J. Dasmarinas
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