And how does this happen to me, that the mother of my Lord should come to me? For at the moment the sound of your greeting reached my ears, the infant in my womb leaped for joy. Blessed are you who believed that what was spoken to you by the Lord would be fulfilled.”
And Mary said: “My soul proclaims the greatness of the Lord; my spirit rejoices in God my Savior for he has looked with favor on his lowly servant. From this day all generations will call me blessed: the Almighty has done great things for me and holy is his Name. He has mercy on those who fear him in every generation.
He has shown the strength of his arm, and has scattered the proud in their conceit. He has cast down the mighty from their thrones, and has lifted up the lowly. He has filled the hungry with good things, and the rich he has sent away empty. He has come to the help of his servant Israel for he has remembered his promise of mercy, the promise he made to our fathers, to Abraham and his children forever.”
Mary remained with her about three months and then returned to her home.
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Reflection:
Is selfless love still relevant today?
Selfless love is a rare and precious virtue in our world today. What we often see is a me-first or self-centered mindset—love redefined as self-care or self-love, as they say. We make sure that our needs are met first before we even think of giving ourselves to others. And so, slowly, we forget how to live as a person for others.
Yet in doing so, we miss a profound truth: when we are selfless, we breathe life, joy, and hope into the hearts of others. We bless them when we give of ourselves without counting the cost. And the blessings we pour out quietly find their way back to us—sometimes in ways we least expect, but always in ways that touch our soul.
The Blessed Mother shows us the beauty of such love. She was not consumed by her own comfort or convenience. Even in the tender months of her own pregnancy, she made the long journey to her cousin Elizabeth—offering her presence, her care, and her love. She stayed until Elizabeth gave birth, ensuring she was supported and comforted during a delicate time. What love could be greater than giving yourself fully when you, too, are in need?
In this age, when so many are preoccupied with personal happiness, social media validation, and self-fulfillment, Mary’s example stands as a gentle but firm invitation: Look beyond yourself. See the needs of others. Love even when you long to be loved.
Who are those who need our love the most? Let us begin with our mothers. Like Elizabeth, they have carried us, nurtured us, and prayed for us. They are growing older with each passing day, and though we may not notice the quiet changes, there will come a day when they will no longer be with us. While they are still here, let us love them in ways they can feel—in words, in actions, in time shared. What will it cost us? Almost nothing, yet the joy it will bring them is immeasurable.
And beyond our mothers, there are countless others who need our love—friends who are silently struggling, neighbors carrying heavy burdens, strangers longing for a kind word. They may never say it, but they are waiting for someone to see them, to care for them, to love them without asking for anything in return.
The truth is, life is never measured by the wealth we accumulate or the possessions we own. It is measured by the selfless acts of love, kindness, and mercy we offer to others.
Do you love as Mary loves? Do you go out of your way to bring Christ’s presence into the lives of others? Do you allow God to use you as an instrument of His agape—love that gives without expecting anything back?
May the
Blessed Mother lead us to her Son, who is Love Himself. And may our hearts
learn the joy of loving without measure, for in giving ourselves away, we
discover the fullness of life. — Marino J. Dasmarinas



