“You have heard that it was said to your ancestors,
You shall not kill; and whoever kills will be liable to judgment. But I say to
you, whoever is angry with his brother will be liable to judgment, and whoever
says to his brother, Raqa, will be answerable to the Sanhedrin, and whoever
says, ‘You fool,’ will be liable to fiery Gehenna.
Therefore, if you bring your gift to the altar, and
there recall that your brother has anything against you, leave your gift there
at the altar, go first and be reconciled with your brother, and then come and
offer your gift. Settle with your opponent quickly while on the way to court.
Otherwise your opponent will hand you over to the judge, and the judge will
hand you over to the guard, and you will be thrown into prison. Amen, I say to
you, you will not be released until you have paid the last penny.”
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Reflection:
What is the antidote to sin or what could defeat sin
or hatred? Its humility, forgiveness and love. For example, if you sin against
your spouse the cure for this sin is to humble yourself before your spouse. You
do this by saying, I’m sorry for hurting you or I’m sorry for
betraying your trust.
If your spouse loves you dearly you can expect
forgiveness, the mitigating factor here is your humility to admit your
offense or sin. But not everyone is willing to say, I’m sorry for to admit one’s
mistake or to say I’m sorry is one of the hardest words to say. But if
there’s humility in us we would not think twice to apologize for this will once
again heal the relationship.
But the paradox is, we are quick to sin yet we are not
quick to apologize or some are not even willing to apologize. And this lack
of humility on our part creates bigger trouble/s in our married relationship or
any other kind of relationship for that matter.
In our gospel Jesus is teaching us about humility and
to have the courage to admit our own mistakes or shortcomings (Matthew
5:23-25). Why? Because if we are willing to humble ourselves and if we have the
courage to admit our own sinfulness. We therefore save ourselves from further
trouble. But if we continue to be dominating and arrogant then trouble/s would
always be with us.
Would you be willing to humbly apologize to somebody
whom you have offended? To reach out or to apologize is hard to do but it’s
also a redemptive experience for it will set you free from the bondage of
arrogance and the devil. – Marino J. Dasmarinas