1. “Father, forgive them; they know not what they do.” (Luke
23:34)
Are we forgiving?
Mahatma Gandhi once said: “The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the
attribute of the strong.” Forgiveness simply means that we choose to move on
and not allow hatred to destroy us.
Hanging on the cross and near-death Jesus spoke these
profound words. Who was Jesus alluding to when He spoke these words?
Jesus was alluding to those who persecuted Him which led Him on the cross. They
were His critics like the Pharisees, Scribes, High priest and so forth. Included
also were the Soldiers who brought Him to the mountain of Calvary to nail Him
on the cross.
Here we see that Jesus is full of mercy, love and
forgiveness towards those who made life very difficult for Him. Jesus did not
bear any hatred towards those who hated and killed Him.
We have to reflect here on how we forgive those who sinned
against us. For example, if a person betrayed our trust or a person hurts us.
Have we forgiven them already? We have to forgive no matter how deep the hurt
the they’ve inflicted upon us. Why? Because if Jesus can forgive who are we not
to forgive?
Forgiveness is a gift that we give not to those who’ve hurt
us or betrayed us. Forgiveness is a gift that we give to ourselves for the
simple reason that we are only hurting our very selves when we don’t forgive.
We have to free ourselves from being imprisoned by hatred caused by our
unforgiveness. Therefore, we have to forgive.
Are you forgiving?
2. “Amen, I say to you, today you
will be with me in Paradise.” (Luke 23:43)
Where is the paradise that Jesus is referring?
The paradise is with Him, in Him and in His kingdom in
heaven. Jesus addressed this statement to one of the criminals hanging on the
cross by His side. The criminal said to Jesus: “Jesus, remember me when you
come into your kingdom (Luke 23:42).” And right there Jesus said to the
criminal: “Amen, I say to you, today you will be with me in Paradise.” (Luke
23:43)
The criminal was enlightened while he was hanging on the
cross side by side with Jesus. This is the reason why he asked the
Lord to remember him when He is already in His kingdom. Don’t we all want to
have the same enlightenment that he had? Of course, we do want it as well. So,
we have to humbly ask the Lord for the same enlightenment coursed through our
prayers to the Lord. Many of us are so fixated in this fleeting word that we
think and feel that this is our paradise. But as we go through the covid-19
pandemic experience we discover that this world is not at all paradise. We seek
worldly pleasures (many of these worldly pleasures influence us to sin). We
seek temporal wealth and worldly power and influence only to find out that this
is not where paradise is located. Why? For the simple reason that we
humans have no satisfaction we will seek these earthly things which we think
would satisfy us. Only to realize in the end that it cannot and will not
satisfy us.
So, where is the real paradise that the Lord is talking?
This paradise we can only find, feel and experience with Him, in Him and
through Him. The true and real paradise that Jesus mentions is already here and
now when we make Him part and parcel of our daily living. When we
make Jesus our Lord and Savoir.
Where is your paradise?
3. “Woman, behold thy son. After that,
he said to the disciple: Behold thy mother.” (John 19: 26-27)
Do you respect and love the Blessed Mother and your own
mother?
When Jesus was on the cross dying, He saw His mother Mary
still looking after Him. His mother, who cared, nurtured and watched over Him
from the beginning until the end of His life. Dying and all, Jesus saw that
nobody would take care of His mother so He asked John, His beloved disciple to
take care of her.
Do we also take care of the Blessed Mother by respecting her
as Jesus respected her? Mary is the mother of Jesus therefore it is incumbent
for us to give her the respect and love which she richly
deserves. We show our love and respect for the Blessed Mother when
we pray the Holy Rosary. When we politely teach others to respect her
because she is the mother of Jesus and our mother as well. Mary our mother who
will always be there to listen to us when no one would dare listen to
us. Mary our mother who will always be there to pray for us.
This is also to remind us that we have to respect and love
at all times our own respective mothers. We would never exist in this world
without our mothers. We would never become who we are today without their
guidance and nurturing. Jesus would not have existed in this world without the
consent of his mother Mary. As a debt of gratitude to his mother Jesus saw it
fit to entrust his mother to his beloved disciple John.
Do you respect and love the Blessed Mother and your own
mother? What are you doing right now to show your respect and love
for the Blessed Mother? Do you invoke her intersession when you pray? Do you
defend her when someone is demeaning her role in the life of Jesus?
4.“My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?” (Mark
15:34)
Do we sometimes feel forsaken by the Lord?
On the cross and dying Jesus uttered these words. These are
words of surrender, frustration and giving up. After going through all of the
persecutions, torture and abandonment Jesus felt forsaken. Who among us would
not feel the same way when we’ve been through what Jesus had been through? We
would also understandably feel forsaken and abandoned by the
Lord.
But did God abandon Jesus when He was gasping and dying on
the cross? Does God abandon and forsake us when we are at the lowest point of
our lives? Is God absent as we navigate through the dangerous waters of
this covid-19 pandemic experience? God did not abandon Jesus, God was with
Jesus all the way! God was strengthening Jesus when Jesus was at the lowest and
weakest point in His life. And certainly God is also walking with us as we try to
survive this covid-19 pandemic experience.
We are humans subject to our own human frailties. It is
understandable to feel forsaken by the Lord once in a while. But truth be told,
God’s presence in our lives is strongest when we feel forsaken by this world
and the people of this world. God will never forsake us, God will never abandon
us and God will always be there to strengthen us. Therefore, we always have to
cling to Him in good times and most especially in the turbulent episodes of our
lives.
Do you sometimes feel abandoned and forsaken by the Lord?
5.“I thirst.” (John 19:28)
What do we thirst for?
Was it physical thirst that Jesus was feeling when He said:
“I thirst.” In His humanity, yes physical thirst but more than that it was the
thirst for those people who were formerly with Him. These are the people who
were with Jesus during His healing and speaking ministry.
Dying on the cross perhaps, Jesus was whimpering while
saying, “I thirst.” Why? For the reason that He was also thirsting for His
followers and apostles who were with Him during His miraculous healing and
powerful speaking ministry.
It is in the lowest episodes of our lives that we would know
who is really for us and not for us. Those who are for us would choose to
remain no matter the odds against us. Those who are not for us would
immediately evaporate from our sights to save their necks.
When we encounter these words: “I thirst.” Let us
imagine that Jesus is addressing these words to us. I thirst for you to be
faithful in your marriage covenant. I thirst for you to be honest where you are
presently working right now. I Thirst for you to value the sacredness of life
over the evils of abortion and extra judicial killing. I thirst for you to
always be humble and simple.
I thirst for your presence at Holy Mass everyday or
even every Sunday if you cannot make it every day. I thirst for you
to become a good father/mother. I thirst for you to become a good and God
loving son/daughter. I thirst for you to be faithful to your priesthood. I
thirst for you to be faithful to your religious life. I thirst for you to help
those who are going hungry caused by this Covid-19 pandemic.
Would you respond to Jesus thirst?
6.“It is finished.” (John 19:30)
How do you feel after finishing a worthy undertaking?
You feel good and triumphant. This second to the last word
of Jesus is a word of triumph, at last it’s over at last it’s mission
accomplished!
Jesus finally defeated the voice of Satan who was whispering
to Him not to finish His salvific mission. Jesus overcame the many hurdles and
temptation for Him not to pursue to the end His mission of salvation.
Finally, Jesus redeemed the sinful humanity from the enslavement of sin.
However, it’s not finished for us yet, we are still in this
journey called life. We are still battling the many demons that constantly
whispers to our ears to commit sin. So, what are we going to do to be able to
say that, “It's finally finished!”
We have to be faithful to our Lord until our end in this
temporal world overtakes us. Then, when it comes, we can finally say, it is
finished because we have been faithful to the Lord. We did not give an iota of space
for Satan to distract us in our disciples with the Lord.
Would we be able to successfully say, “It is finished ” when
the sun sets upon us someday? It is finished because we have defeated the many
demons that were constantly tempting us to give up in our disciples for Jesus.
7. “Father, into your hands I commend my
spirit.” (Luke 23:46)
Are you afraid to die?
After all has been said and done it’s now the end, it’s the
victorious death of Jesus on the cross. Jesus conquered our sinfulness by dying
on the cross. By giving His very life on the cross Jesus showed us the true
meaning of sacrifice and love.
Death is something that many of us fear but why fear death
if we live our life with Jesus in this world? Why fear death when this is the
final hurdle for us to be with the Lord in heaven? Why fear death when it ends
all our sufferings in this world? If we have not done wrong in this world we
would not fear death. When we love the Lord over this fleeting and temporal
world we would not fear death.
Many of us fear death for the simple reason that we are so
attached to this world. But if we are detached from this world and attached to our
Lord, we would not fear death. What are the attachments that we have that makes
us fear death? Are we so attached to our worldly possession that’s
why we fear death?
When we make this world our God we would fear death, when we
make our worldly possession our master instead of servant we would fear death.
Jesus conquered His fear of death because He has no worldly attachments. From
the beginning Jesus detached Himself from this world because it would encumber
Him from devoting His life to His mission of salvation.
Let us slowly but surely detach ourselves from this world.
So that when we are at the doorway going to the everlasting life we can say to
our Lord: "I'm finally coming home my Lord, into your hands I commend my
spirit." - Marino J. Dasmarinas