Gospel: Luke 6:39-45
Jesus told his disciples a parable, "Can
a blind person guide a blind person? Will not both fall into a pit? No disciple
is superior to the teacher; but when fully trained, every disciple will be like
his teacher. Why do you notice the splinter in your brother's eye, but do not
perceive the wooden beam in your own? How can you say to your brother, 'Brother,
let me remove that splinter in your eye,' when you do not even notice the
wooden beam in your own eye? You hypocrite!
Remove the wooden beam from your eye first; then you will see clearly to
remove the splinter in your brother's eye.
"A good tree does not bear rotten fruit, nor
does a rotten tree bear good fruit. For every tree is known by its own fruit. For
people do not pick figs from thornbushes, nor do they gather grapes from
brambles. A good person out of the store of goodness in his heart produces
good, but an evil person out of a store of evil produces evil; for from the
fullness of the heart the mouth speaks."
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Reflection:
A woman saw a handsome man. The handsome man
sensing that the woman was looking at him looked as well to the woman. Their
eyes met and she immediately fell in love with the handsome man. After a few
weeks they got married, but two months after their marriage the domineering and
arrogant behavior of the man started to unravel.
Are you
easily swayed by outward appearance? For example, you saw a handsome man or a beautiful
woman and you were immediately attracted to that person. An attractive outward appearance is very
deceiving. Why? For the simple reason that we will not fully know the true
character of the person based on what we see.
What we
see is simply a façade it can be faked. The exterior is not the true color or
true character of the person. The true color or character lies hidden in the
heart of the person. And we can only discover this hidden character once we get
to know the person better.
Many
young people today are easily lured to this trap of outward appearance. This is
what attracts them to their future wife or husband. However, after marriage the
hidden, dark and true character of their spouse will begin to show.
This also
applies in relationship concerning friendship. We must not make friends with
someone simply because the person is rich or influential. We should be friends
with a person because of the good character of that person. It doesn’t matter
if the person is poor what is important is the character and the goodness that emanates
from that person’s heart.
In our
first reading according to the book of Sirach it says: one's speech disclose
the bent of one's mind (Sirach 27:6). And in our gospel Jesus tells us: “From
the fullness of the heart the mouth speaks (Luke 6:45).”
So, what
are we going to do so that we will not fall into this false impression based on
the exterior appearance? We have to know the person better by way of speaking
to that person. By carefully discerning his/her utterances or the words that
he/she speaks.
Because what he/she speaks comes from the heart and what originates
from the heart is the measure of a person’s true character. – Marino J. Dasmarinas