Reflection for Sunday May 5, Sixth Sunday of Easter: John 15:9-17

Gospel: John 15:9-17

Jesus said to his disciples: “As the Father loves me, so I also love you. Remain in my love. If you keep my commandments, you will remain in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commandments and remain in his love.

“I have told you this so that my joy might be in you and your joy might be complete. This is my commandment: love one another as I love you. No one has greater love than this, to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. You are my friends if you do what I command you. I no longer call you slaves, because a slave does not know what his master is doing. 

I have called you friends, because I have told you everything I have heard from my Father. It was not you who chose me, but I who chose you and appointed you to go and bear fruit that will remain, so that whatever you ask the Father in my name he may give you. This I command you: love one another.”

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Reflection:

A newlywed couple promised to bring to their graves their marriage vows: 'For better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part.' But the irony was, after having one child and being together for two years, they separated already. What happened to their promise of undying love for each other? 

Nowadays, many of us have a very shallow understanding of love, it’s not anymore undying love or sacrificial love. But love based on convenience, love based on what I can have and what I can possess. The word love has been stripped of its real value. This is the reason why we see married couples flirting with their officemates and friends just to vent out their lust, immorality and adulterous desires.  

This is the distressing reality right now, which is why we see young couples and even middle-aged couples separating. Is it truly because they are no longer happy in their marriage, or is it simply because they want to satisfy their own selfish and satanic desires? 

In the gospel, Jesus commands us to love one another. This love is not based on selfish needs or convenience. Instead, it is anchored on fidelity, sacrifice, self-giving, and trust. That's why incorporating the love of Jesus into our married lives is so crucial. With the love of Jesus, we would remain committed to our marriages, no matter the challenges we face. 

Let us remember that Jesus doesn’t give up on us. He keeps on loving us, He keeps on knocking in our hearts no matter how wayward and sinful we have become. – Marino J. Dasmarinas