Reflection for November 5, Saturday of the Thirty-first Week in Ordinary Time: Luke 16:9-15

Gospel: Luke 16:9-15

Jesus said to his disciples: “I tell you, make friends for yourselves with dishonest wealth, so that when it fails, you will be welcomed into eternal dwellings. The person who is trustworthy in very small matters is also trustworthy in great ones; and the person who is dishonest in very small matters is also dishonest in great ones. 

If, therefore, you are not trustworthy with dishonest wealth, who will trust you with true wealth? If you are not trustworthy with what belongs to another, who will give you what is yours? No servant can serve two masters. He will either hate one and love the other, or be devoted to one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and mammon.” 

The Pharisees, who loved money, heard all these things and sneered at him. And he said to them, “You justify yourselves in the sight of others, but God knows your hearts; for what is of human esteem is an abomination in the sight of God.”

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Reflection:

What is the true wealth that Jesus speaks about in the gospel? 

The dishonest wealth such as money, possessions, power and the like are temporary, fake and passing. And if we are not careful on handling this dishonest wealth it may possess and eventually destroy us or we may destroy others just to possess it. 

The true wealth is Jesus himself! Let us strive: To seek Him and to know more about Him. To have a personal relationship with Him and to share whatever knowledge we know about Him. We cannot have dishonest and true wealth at the same time we have to choose which one do we want. 

If we would choose dishonest wealth it will certainly satisfy our earthly cravings which by the way is bounded by time. So we enjoy it until such time that we leave it or it leaves us. And then we end up with nothing but misery. 

If we have the true and everlasting wealth that is Jesus; we will not anymore be looking for the temporary/dishonest wealth.  For the simple reason that we already possess the greatest wealth that one could ever have in this world and beyond this world. – Marino J. Dasmarinas 

Ang Mabuting Balita para Nobyembre 5 Sabado sa Ika-31 Linggo sa Karaniwang Panahon: Lucas 16:9-15

Mabuting Balita: Lucas 16:9-15

Noong panahong iyon, sinabi ni Hesus sa kanyang mga alagad, "Kaya't sinasabi ko sa inyo: gamitin ninyo sa pakikipagkaibigan ang kayamanan ng sanlibutang ito. Maubos man ito'y may tatanggap naman sa inyo sa tahanang walang hanggan. Ang mapagkakatiwalaan sa maliit na bagay ay mapagkakatiwalaan din sa malaking bagay; ang magdaraya sa maliit na bagay ay magdaraya rin sa maliit na bagay. 

Kung hindi kayo mapagkatiwalaan sa mga kayamanan ng sanlibutang ito, sino ang magtitiwala sa inyo ng tunay na kayamanan? At kung hindi kayo mapagkatiwalaan sa kayamanan ng iba, sino ang magbibigay sa inyo ng talagang para sa inyo? "Walang makapaglilingkod nang sabay sa dalawang panginoon. Sapagkat kapopootan niya ang isa at iibigin ang ikalawa, paglilingkuran nang tapat ang isa at hahamakin ang ikalawa. 

Hindi ninyo mapaglilingkuran nang sabay ang Diyos at ang kayamanan." Narinig ito ng mga Pariseo at nilibak nila si Jesus, sapagkat sakim sila sa salapi. Kaya't sinabi niya sa kanila, "Kayo ang nagpapanggap na mga matuwid sa harapan ng mga tao, ngunit nasasaliksik ng Diyos ang inyong mga puso. Sapagkat ang itinuturing na mahalaga ng mga tao ay kasuklam-suklam sa paningin ng Diyos."

Reflection for Friday November 4, Memorial of Saint Charles Borromeo, Bishop: Luke 16:1-8

Gospel: Luke 16:1-8

Jesus said to his disciples, “A rich man had a steward who was reported to him for squandering his property. He summoned him and said, ‘What is this I hear about you? Prepare a full account of your stewardship, because you can no longer be my steward.’ The steward said to himself, ‘What shall I do, now that my master is taking the position of steward away from me? 

I am not strong enough to dig and I am ashamed to beg. I know what I shall do so that, when I am removed from the stewardship, they may welcome me into their homes.’ He called in his master’s debtors one by one. To the first he said, ‘How much do you owe my master?’ He replied, ‘One hundred measures of olive oil.’ 

He said to him, ‘Here is your promissory note. Sit down and quickly write one for fifty.’ Then to another he said, ‘And you, how much do you owe?’ He replied, ‘One hundred measures of wheat.’ He said to him, ‘Here is your promissory note; write one for eighty.’ And the master commended that dishonest steward for acting prudently. For the children of this world are more prudent in dealing with their own generation than the children of light.

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Reflection:
Do you think of creative ideas so that you could advance more the teachings of the Lord?

The steward in our gospel is creative enough to devise a scheme to ensure his survival after he is out of job. He discounted all the debtors payment, what a clever move but the downside is he did this to ensure only his survival. 

What if he did the same but with the end in mind that he was doing this so that the debtors would know how generous and friendly is his master?  So that when his master eventually comes to visit his debtors they would warmly welcome him. But he did this for his own benefit. 

This is a very good reminder for all of us who profess to follow Jesus. Who are presently doing the mission of Christ or who are aspiring to evangelize the teachings of Jesus. Let us do it not to serve our selfish ends; let us rather always do evangelization to serve the purpose of Christ. So that people would know Jesus more than they would know us. 

Someday when our lives in this world is over  there shall be an accounting of what we have done in this world. God will ask us: What have you done during your lifetime? How shall we answer God by that time? 

Shall we say then that we have shared the many gifts that He has given us? Or we will be mum and speechless because we have not lived a productive life in terms of sharing the gifts that God has given us. 

Some of us will say that how can we share our time when we hardly have time for ourselves. This is a very self-serving statement because if we really desire to share we would be able to share. It all boils down to desire; if we really want to share what we have we can make it happen. – Marino J. Dasmarinas 

Ang Mabuting Balita para Biyernes Nobyembre 4 San Carlos Borromeo Obispo (Paggunita): Lucas 16:1-8

Mabuting Balita: Lucas 16:1-8

Noong panahong iyon, sinabi rin ni Jesus sa kanyang mga alagad, "May isang mayaman na may isang katiwala. Isinumbong sa kanya na nilulustay nito ang kanyang ari-arian. Kaya't ipinatawag niya at tinanong: 'Ano ba itong naririnig ko tungkol sa iyo? Isulit mo sa akin ng buo ang pangangasiwa mo sa aking ari-arian pagkat mula ngayon ay hindi na ikaw ang katiwala ko.'

Nawika ng katiwala sa sarili, 'Aalisin na ako ng aking panginoon sa pangangasiwa. Ano ang gagawin ko? Hindi ko kayang magbungkal ng lupa, nahihiya naman akong magpalimos. A, alam ko na ang aking gagawin! Maalis man ako sa pangangasiwa, may tatanggap din sa akin sa kanilang tahanan.' 

Isa-isa niya ngayong tinawag ang mga may utang sa kanyang panginoon. Tinanong niya ang una. 'Gaano ang utang mo sa aking panginoon?' Sumagot ito, 'Sandaang tapayang langis po.' 'Heto ang kasulatan ng iyong pagkakautang. Dali! Maupo ka't gawin mong limampu.' sabi ng katiwala. 

At tinanong naman niya ang isa, 'Ikaw gaano ang utang mo?' 

Sumagot ito, 'Sandaang kabang trigo po.' 'Heto ang kasulatan ng iyong pagkakautang,' wika niya. 'Isulat mo, walumpo.' Pinuri ng panginoon ang magdarayang katiwala dahil sa katalinuhang ipinamalas nito. Sapagkat ang mga makasanlibutan ay mas mahusay gumawa ng paraan kaysa mga maka-Diyos." 

Reflection for November 3, Thursday of the Thirty-first Week in Ordinary Time: Luke 15:1-10

Gospel: Luke 15:1-10

The tax collectors and sinners were all drawing near to listen to Jesus, but the Pharisees and scribes began to complain, saying, “This man welcomes sinners and eats with them.” So Jesus addressed this parable to them. “What man among you having a hundred sheep and losing one of them would not leave the ninety-nine in the desert and go after the lost one until he finds it?  

And when he does find it, he sets it on his shoulders with great joy and, upon his arrival home, he calls together his friends and neighbors and says to them, ‘Rejoice with me because I have found my lost sheep.’ I tell you, in just the same way there will be more joy in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous people who have no need of repentance. 

“Or what woman having ten coins and losing one would not light a lamp and sweep the house, searching carefully until she finds it? And when she does find it, she calls together her friends and neighbors and says to them, ‘Rejoice with me because I have found the coin that I lost. In just the same way, I tell you, there will be rejoicing among the angels of God over one sinner who repents.

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Reflection:

Are you patient enough to look for those who are lost or wayward? Say for example, a sinful relative or a friend; do you have the patience for them? Do you have the time to counsel or even listen to them so that they could find their way back to the loving embrace of the Lord?   

There were one hundred sheep being taken care of by the good shepherd, suddenly one went ashtray into the wilderness. The good shepherd left the ninety-nine to patiently look for the lost one. He did not stop until He found it. 

The same story goes for the woman with ten silver coins. She lost one silver coin and she never stopped searching for it until she found it. 

This is the love of God for us; He never stops looking for us until He finds us, we who are sinners. Jesus never stops loving us no matter how sinful we are. In fact the big-time sinner we are the bigger His love for us. – Marino J. Dasmarinas  

Ang Mabuting Balita para Nobyembre 3 Huwebes ng Ika-31 Linggo sa Karaniwang Panahon: Lucas 15:1-10

Mabuting Balita: Lucas 15:1-10

Noong panahong iyon, ang mga publikano at ang mga makasalanan ay nagsisilapit upang makinig kay Jesus. Nagbulung-bulungan ang mga Pariseo at ang mga eskriba. Ang sabi nila, "Ang taong ito'y nakikisalamuha sa mga makasalanan at nakikisalo sa kanila." 

Kaya't sinabi sa kanila ni Jesus ang talinghagang ito: "Kung sinuman sa inyo ay may sandaang tupa, at mawala ang isa, ano ang gagawin niya? Iiwan ang siyamnapu't siyam sa ilang at hahanapin ang nawawala hanggang sa matagpuan, hindi ba? Kapag nasumpungan na'y masaya niyang papasanin ito. 

Pagdating ng bahay, aanyayahan niya ang kanyang mga kaibigan at mga kapitbahay. Sasabihin niya, 'Makipagsaya kayo sa akin, sapagkat nasumpungan ko sa wakas ang tupa kong nawawala!' Sinasabi ko sa inyo, magkakaroon ng higit na kagalakan sa langit dahil sa isang makasalanang nagsisi't tumalikod sa kanyang kasalanan kaysa siyamnapu't siyam na matuwid na hindi nangangailangang magsisi." 

"O kaya, kung ang isang babae ay may sampung salaping pilak at mawala ang isa, ano ang gagawin niya? Sisindihan niya ang ilaw, wawalisan ang bahay at hahanaping mabuti hanggang sa masumpungan ito, hindi ba? Kapag nasumpungan na ito ay aanyayahan niya ang kanyang mga kaibigan at mga kapitbahay. 

sasabihin niya, 'Makipagsaya kayo sa akin, sapagkat nasumpungan ko sa wakas ang nawawala kong salaping pilak!' sinasabi ko sa inyo, gayon din ang kagalakan ng mga anghel ng Diyos dahil sa isang makasalanang nagsisi't tumalikod sa kanyang kasalanan."

When I'm Gone ( A Poem for All Souls Day ) By: Lyman Hancock

When I’ve come to the end of my journey

and I have traveled my very last mile

Forget if you can that I’ve frowned

Remember only my smile...

Forgive unkind words I have spoken

Remember some good I have done

Forget I ever had heartache

And remember only our fun...

Forget that I've stumbled and fumbled

And sometimes fell by the way

Remember: I fought some hard battles

But had you at the close of my day...

Do not grieve for my going

I would not have you sad this day

But in time gather some flowers

And remember the place where I lay...

Perhaps in the shade of evening

When the sun paints the sky in the West

Come stand a few moments above me

Remembering only the best...

Reflection for Wednesday November 2, The Commemoration of All the Faithful Departed (All Souls Day): John 14:1-6

Gospel: John 14:1-6

Jesus said to his disciples: "Do not let your hearts be troubled. You have faith in God; have faith also in me. In my Father's house there are many dwelling places. If there were not, would I have told you that I am going to prepare a place for you? 

And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back again and take you to myself, so that where I am you also may be. Where I am going you know the way." Thomas said to him, "Master, we do not know where you are going; how can we know the way?" Jesus said to him, "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me."

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Reflection:

Where are we going after our life in this world is over? We don’t know only God knows. But Jesus in our gospel is giving us a hint as to where would we be eventually. Jesus tells us: “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” 

The secret therefore to know where we would eventually end up is to follow Jesus. Why follow Jesus? Because He is the truth and the life and we cannot reach the Father in heaven except through Him. 

From time to time we would hear stories of conversion about troubled lives, lives lived in sin, without peace and contentment. Until they’ve known Jesus after that their lives were never the same again. From troublesome or worrisome lives it became peaceful and serene courtesy of Jesus. 

Jesus is the only way and He is the only one that can give us peace that transcends this world. Jesus will give us a glimpse of this peaceful feeling the moment we immediately choose to rest our lives in Him. 

We all know that life in this world is uncertain it may end very abruptly anytime. Let us therefore invest more on Jesus rather than on this world. We can do this by learning more about Him, by helping the poor and by living Jesus’ life of simplicity. 

If we do this we can perhaps have our reserved dwelling place with the Lord in heaven someday. – Marino J. Dasmarinas 

Reflection for Tuesday November 1 Solemnity of All Saints: Matthew 5:1-12a

Gospel: Matthew 5:1-12a

When Jesus saw the crowds, he went up the mountain, and after he had sat down, his disciples came to him. He began to teach them, saying: 

“Blessed are the poor in spirit,

for theirs is the Kingdom of heaven.

Blessed are they who mourn,

for they will be comforted.

Blessed are the meek,

for they will inherit the land.

Blessed are they who hunger and thirst for righteousness,

for they will be satisfied.

Blessed are the merciful,

for they will be shown mercy.

Blessed are the clean of heart,

for they will see God.

Blessed are the peacemakers,

for they will be called children of God.

Blessed are they who are persecuted for the sake of righteousness,

for theirs is the Kingdom of heaven.

Blessed are you when they insult you and persecute you

and utter every kind of evil against you falsely because of me.

Rejoice and be glad,

for your reward will be great in heaven.”

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Reflection:

What is the objective of your life? Is it limited only for the enjoyment of the things of this world? There is a more meaningful life that lies beneath this superficial life. However, you wouldn’t be able to discover the essence of life unless you learn to detach yourself from this world and begin to embrace the teachings of Jesus. 

What does it mean to be poor in spirit and why is it a blessing to be poor in spirit? As the literal poor relies on the generosity of his fellowmen so that he could sustain himself. To be poor in spirit means that we always rely on Jesus in everything most especially for our spiritual nourishment. 

This means that we rely on the goodness of Jesus. We continuously rely and hunger for God to fill our empty lives so that He could enrich us spirituality. 

Today is all Saints Day, we solemnly remember the Saints they who generously gave their very lives for the mission of Jesus. The saints are not actually spotless when it comes to sin. Just like us they also had their own battle with sin and they triumphed over it because of the help of Jesus. 

The saints became saints for the simple reason that they recognized their spiritual poverty. They discerned that life is empty and meaningless without the guidance of Jesus. We too could become saints in our own little way. If only we would acknowledge our own poverty of spirit. And if only we would invite Jesus to come into our lives and fill our empty and barren lives. - Marino J. Dasmarinas     

Reflection for October 31 Monday of the Thirty-first Week in Ordinary Time: Luke 14:12-14

Gospel: Luke 14:12-14

On a sabbath Jesus went to dine at the home of one of the leading Pharisees. He said to the host who invited him, “When you hold a lunch or a dinner, do not invite your friends or your brothers or sisters or your relatives or your wealthy neighbors, in case they  may invite you back and you have repayment.  

Rather, when you hold a banquet, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind; blessed indeed will you be because of their inability to repay you. For you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous.

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Reflection:

Have you tried giving to those who cannot give you back?  

There is always this feeling of unexplainable happiness when you give to those who cannot give you back. For example, when you give to a poor relative, a poor friend or an unknown poor just passing by you. There’s always that feeling of unfathomable happiness. 

From where does this feeling of happiness comes from? It comes from God who gives back on behalf of those who cannot repay your kindness. Such how good God is, He always sees to it that the good that you do is given back to you. And when God gives back He gives back generously. 

But many of us prefer to give to those who are capable of giving us back. Perhaps that’s human nature but what if we try giving to those who cannot repay our generosity? The moment we do it then we see how good God really is. 

The gospel for today invites us to reflect on the motives of our giving. Do we give because we expect something in return? Or we give because we find unfathomable joy in giving especially to those who cannot reciprocate our generosity.  

Every act of goodness that we do most especially to those who cannot give us back is generously rewarded by God in manifold way. – Marino J. Dasmarinas  

Reflection for Sunday October 30, 31st Sunday in Ordinary Time: Luke 19:1-10

Gospel: Luke 19:1-10

At that time, Jesus came to Jericho and intended to pass through the town. Now a man there named Zacchaeus, who was a chief tax collector and also a wealthy man, was seeking to see who Jesus was; but he could not see him because of the crowd, for he was short in stature. So he ran ahead and climbed a sycamore tree in order to see Jesus, who was about to pass that way. 

When he reached the place, Jesus looked up and said, “Zacchaeus, come down quickly, for today I must stay at your house.” And he came down quickly and received him with joy. When they all saw this, they began to grumble, saying, “He has gone to stay at the house of a sinner.” 

But Zacchaeus stood there and said to the Lord, “Behold, half of my possessions, Lord, I shall give to the poor, and if I have extorted anything from anyone I shall repay it four times over.” And Jesus said to him, “Today salvation has come to this house because this man too is a descendant of Abraham. For the Son of Man has come to seek and to save what was lost.”

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Reflection:

The story is told about a man who ambitioned to become wealthy because he thought that if he becomes wealthy he would eventually be happy and fulfilled. He did everything to achieve his ambition including dirtying his hands with dishonest wealth. He eventually became wealthy but he was still not happy neither fulfilled. Until he found Jesus and from thereupon he found peace and fulfillment. 

Is Zacchaeus an ambitious man? 

Yes, Zacchaeus is an ambitious man, he ambitioned to become wealthy no matter what it takes. And with the help of his job as a tax collector his ambition eventually became a reality. He did not mind dirtying his hands with corrupted money just to become rich.  

Considering that he was wealthy and almost had every worldly things that he could ask for, what moved Zacchaeus to seek Jesus? Perhaps, after enjoying all the trappings of dirty wealth and influence. Zacchaeus was still empty deep inside him, he was still yearning for that something that would fill his inner longing for peace and fulfillment.  

Many of us are like Zacchaeus, we chase wealth and power. We don’t even mind if we would commit corruption just to achieve what we want.  This is for the reason that we think that we would become happy and satisfied once we are already wealthy. 

 But the more that we become wealthy and powerful the more that we are not able to sleep soundly at night. The more that we would not have peace of mind and this is principally caused by our greed for wealth and power. 

On the external Zacchaeus is a picture of wealth and power. But deep inside he is crumbling primarily brought by his lack of peace of mind. Until he heard about Jesus and from thereon he promised himself to look for Him no matter what it takes. 

And when he heard that Jesus would be passing by his place, he chased him with all of his might. He did not mind if he would wade through a sea of humanity and he did not mind either if he would climb a sycamore tree to get Jesus’ attention. Why? Because he knew that it is only Jesus who can give him peace of mind and fulfillment. 

How about you who gives you peace and fulfillment? – Marino J. Dasmarinas

Ang Mabuting Balita para sa Linggo Oktubre 30, Ika - 31 na Linggo sa Karaniwang Panahon : Lucas 19:1-10

Mabuting Balita: Lucas 19:1-10

Noong panahong iyon, pumasok si Jesus sa Jerico, at naglakad sa kabayanan. Doo'y may isang mayamang puno ng mga publikano na nagngangalang Zaqueo, at pinagsikapan niyang makita si Jesus upang makilala niya kung sino ito. Ngunit siya ay napakapandak, at dahil sa dami ng tao, hindi niya makita si Jesus. 

Kaya't patakbo siyang nagpauna at umakyat sa isang puno ng sikomoro upang makita si Jesus na magdaraan doon. Pagdating ni Jesus sa dakong iyon, siya'y tumingala at sinabi sa kanya, "Zaqueo, bumaba ka agad, sapagkat kailangan kong tumuloy sa bahay mo." Nagmamadali siyang bumaba, at tuwang-tuwang tinanggap si Jesus. 

Lahat ng nakakita nito ay nagbulung-bulungan. "Nakikituloy siya sa isang makasalanan," wika nila. Tumayo si Zaqueo at sinabi, "Panginoon, ibibigay ko po sa mga dukha ang kalahati ng aking ari-arian. At kung ako'y may nadayang sinuman, apat na ibayo ang isasauli ko sa kanya." At sinabi sa kanya ni Jesus, "Ang kaligtasa'y dumating ngayon sa sambahayang ito; lipi rin ni Abraham ang taong ito. Sapagkat naparito ang Anak ng Tao upang hanapin at iligtas ang naligaw."

Reflection for October 29 Saturday of the Thirtieth Week in Ordinary Time: Luke 14:1, 7-11

Gospel: Luke 14:1, 7-11

On a sabbath Jesus went to dine at the home of one of the leading Pharisees, and the people there were observing him carefully.  

He told a parable to those who had been invited, noticing how they were choosing the places of honor at the table. “When you are invited by someone to a wedding banquet, do not recline at table in the place of honor. A more distinguished guest than you may have been invited by him, and the host who invited both of you may approach you and say, ‘Give your place to this man,’ and then you would proceed with embarrassment to take the lowest place.   

Rather, when you are invited, go and take the lowest place so that when the host comes to you he may say, ‘My friend, move up to a higher position.’ Then you will enjoy the esteem of your companions at the table. For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, but the one who humbles himself will be exalted.  

Then he said to the host who invited him, "When you hold a lunch or a dinner, do not invite your friends or your brothers or your relatives or your wealthy neighbors, in case they may invite you back and you have repayment. Rather, when you hold a banquet, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind; blessed indeed will you be because of their inability to repay you. For you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous."

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Reflection:

What can humility do to your life? Among many other things humility can give you peace and contentment. With humility you can also have many friends and you would get their silent admiration.  

Many of us are afraid to imbibe and live humility because we are afraid that we would be dominated. But humility doesn’t work that way, humility is not to be afraid to be dominated. And humility is not to think less of ourselves but to think of ourselves as somebody who is not superior than anyone else no matter how educated and learned we are.  

For example, if the situation calls for us to say yes and follow lawful orders by all means we have to say yes and follow. Thus, we have to do the task that is given to us with utmost competence.  We give it our all until we are able to achieve what is expected of us and then we simply fade away from the limelight.   There is always a reward that accompanies humility and that is honor and exaltation not from our fellow human beings but from God.  

In the gospel Jesus tells us about the parable of the wedding banquet. The Lord tells us that when we get invited we have to seat first at the lowest place no matter who we are and let the host have a free hand to bring us to the place which we deserve.    

Why is the Lord very particular about humility? The reason behind is it’s only through our humility that the Lord could pour out His unfathomable blessings upon us. – Marino J. Dasmarinas 

Ang Mabuting Balita para Oktubre 29 Sabado sa Ika-30 Linggo sa Karaniwang Panahon: Lucas 14:1, 7-11

Mabuting Balita: Lucas 14:1, 7-11

Isang Araw ng Pamamahinga, si Hesus ay inanyayahang kumain sa bahay ng isang pinuno ng mga Pariseo; at binabantayan nilang mabuti ang kanyang mga kilos.  

Napansin ni Hesus na ang pinipili ng mga inanyayahan ay ang mga upuang nakalaan sa mga piling panauhin. Kaya’t sinabi niya ang talinghagang ito: “Kapag inanyayahan ka ninuman sa isang kasalan, huwag mong pipiliin ang tanging upuan. Baka may inanyayahang lalong tanyag kaysa iyo.  

At lalapit ang nag-anyaya sa inyong dalawa at sasabihin sa iyo, ‘Maaari bang ibigay ninyo ang upuang iyan sa taong ito?’ Sa gayo’y mapapahiya ka at doon malalagay sa pinakaabang upuan. Ang mabuti, kapag naanyayahan ka, doon ka maupo sa pinakaabang upuan, sapagkat paglapit ng nag-anyaya sa iyo ay kanyang sasabihin, ‘Kaibigan, dini ka sa kabisera.’ Sa gayun, nabigyan ka ng malaking karangalan sa harapan ng mga panauhin. 

Sapagkat ang nagpapakataas ay ibababa, at ang nagpapakababa ay itataas.”