Huwag
din ninyong sabihing, ‘Saksi ko ang Jerusalem,’ sapagkat ito’y lungsod ng
dakilang Hari. Ni huwag mong sabihing, ‘Mamatay man ako,’ sapagkat ni isang
buhok sa iyong ulo’y hindi mo mapapuputi o mapaiitim. Sabihin mo na lang na
‘Oo’ kung oo at ‘Hindi’ kung hindi; sapagkat buhat na sa Masama ang anumang
sumpang idaragdag dito.”
Short, Simple and Personal reflections on the daily Holy Mass Gospel. I provide talks.
Wednesday, June 08, 2022
Ang Mabuting Balita para Sabado Hunyo 11, San Bernabe, apostol (Paggunita): Mateo 10:7-13
1Reflection for June 10, Friday of the Tenth Week in Ordinary time: Matthew 5:27-32
30 And if your right hand causes you to
sin, cut it off and throw it away; it is better that you lose one of your
members than that your whole body go into hell. 31 "It was
also said, `Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of
divorce.' But I say to you that every one who divorces his wife, except
on the ground of unchastity, makes her an adulteress; and whoever marries a
divorced woman commits adultery.
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Reflection:
Why is there adultery?
It is because we no longer hold sacred the sanctity of the Sacrament of Matrimony. Marriage, once seen as a divine covenant sealed before God, is now often treated as a mere contract—something we feel free to break whenever it no longer serves our selfish desires. Why are many no longer afraid to violate their marriage covenant?
It is because we have drifted away from the love of God. When God is no longer at the center of our lives, we lose our moral compass. The reverence we once had for His commandments fades, and so too does our fear of sin.
At the heart of adultery is the absence of godly values—values that should be instilled early in life. And who is responsible for planting these values in the hearts of children? The answer is clear: the parents.
Sadly, many parents today are more concerned with showering their children with material things—money, the latest gadgets, and other worldly possessions—than with nourishing their souls with the Word of God.
Children raised in such an environment may know about God, but they do not grow up with His values rooted in their hearts. They may be informed of His presence, but they do not fear Him, honor Him, or seek to live according to His will.
So what must we do?
As parents and as believers, we must return to our sacred duty. We must teach our children to love, fear, and obey God. We must lead them by example—by living faithfully and being steadfast in our own marriage vows. Parents are the first and most powerful teachers of faith. If children see their parents committed to their marriage and faithful to God, they too will be inspired to live lives of purity and commitment.
In today’s Gospel, we witness how deeply Jesus detests adultery. He does so not out of anger, but out of love—for He knows that marriage is meant to be a holy union, a lifelong journey of love, faithfulness, and sacrifice. It is not a union that ends the moment temptation arrives or someone more “desirable” appears.
Adultery brings not just momentary pain, but a lifelong spiritual burden. It is a wound on the soul that can lead to years of guilt, brokenness, and separation from God. Let us never forget: adultery is not merely a betrayal of one’s spouse—it is a betrayal of the covenant with God Himself.
May we recommit ourselves to upholding the sacredness of marriage, and may we ask the Lord for the grace to remain faithful—whether as spouses, parents, or future husbands and wives. May we always walk in the light of His love and truth. — Marino J. Dasmarinas
Tuesday, June 07, 2022
Reflection for June 9, Thursday of the Tenth Week in Ordinary time: Matthew 5:20-26
“You have heard that it was said to your ancestors, You shall not kill; and whoever kills will be liable to judgment. But I say to you, whoever is angry with his brother will be liable to judgment, and whoever says to his brother, Raqa, will be answerable to the Sanhedrin, and whoever says, ‘You fool,’ will be liable to fiery Gehenna.
Therefore, if you bring your gift to the altar, and there recall that your brother has anything against you, leave your gift there at the altar, go first and be reconciled with your brother, and then come and offer your gift. Settle with your opponent quickly while on the way to court.
Otherwise your opponent will hand you over
to the judge, and the judge will hand you over to the guard, and you will be
thrown into prison. Amen, I say to you, you will not be released until you have
paid the last penny.”
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Reflection:
The story is told about a young man who was working as a houseboy, he was always being insulted by the family that he worked for. Name all the insulting words around and chances are that it could have been already hurled against him. Eventually the young man reached the limit of his patience so instead of doing something criminal to the family. He just walked away from them emotionally hurting and wounded.
In the gospel Jesus reminds us to be careful with the words that we say for it can create a permanent wound in the emotions of our fellowmen. If the words that we will say are insulting it’s better not to say it. It’s better to simply be quite and let the anger be cured by time.
Insulting words deeply hurts the receiver and it carves a permanent emotional wound in his/her being. But why do we say words that are not fit to be said? Why are we very quick to insult and belittle? This is primarily brought about by our arrogance, bloated egos and the feeling of superiority.
What is the cure for this unhealthy
behavior? The cure is Jesus, if we would follow Jesus and if we would allow Him
to change us. He will cleanse us of our arrogance, egotism and feeling of
superiority. – Marino J. Dasmarinas
Reflection for June 8, Wednesday of the Tenth Week in Ordinary time: Matthew 5:17-19
Therefore, whoever breaks one of the least
of these commandments and teaches others to do so will be called least in the
Kingdom of heaven. But whoever obeys and teaches these commandments will be
called greatest in the Kingdom of heaven.”
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Reflection:
What will happen to us if we would always observe the Ten Commandments (Exodus 20:2-17) and the two greatest commandments that Jesus gave us (Matthew 22:36-40)? We surely would move closer to Jesus, we would grow in faith and there would be peace in our lives.
This is the price that awaits those who would observe the laws of God. Without close observance of God’s commandments there would also be no close relationship with God. Observe those who don’t follow the commandments of God or observe your very own self when you don’t follow God’s commandments. What kind of life do you have? Isn’t a life of chaos, disturbance and endless problems?
Therefore the key to friendship with God is our faithful observance of His commandments. But human as we are we are subject to our own frailties. We fall and sin every once in a while and thus we are temporarily separated from the love of God.
However Jesus also instituted the Sacrament of Reconciliation so that whenever we sin we have a recourse out of sin. But even if we have a recourse let us not abuse it by saying that, we will sin because there is the Sacrament of Reconciliation anyway.
Let us always be conscious that sin
separates us from the love of God. We therefore have to endeavor to always
remain within the ambit of the love of God. Hence, we always have to despise
sin in whatever forms and shapes. – Marino J. Dasmarinas
Monday, June 06, 2022
Reflection for June 7, Tuesday of the Tenth Week in Ordinary time: Matthew 5:13-16
You are the light of the world. A
city set on a mountain cannot be hidden. Nor do they light a lamp and then put
it under a bushel basket; it is set on a lampstand where it gives light to all
in the house. Just so, your light must shine before others, that they may see
your good deeds and glorify your heavenly Father.”
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Reflection:
The story is told about a poor and sickly man who went to a doctor to ask if he could help him be confined in a hospital without paying anything. Seeing the plight of the poor man the doctor said yes without any hesitation. The doctor did not stop there he saw to it that he would extend the best possible help to the poor man by shouldering all the medicines that he would be needing.
As the doctor made his many visits to him the poor man noticed a gleaming pin that was always attached to his collar. So he asked, what is that little pin on your collar? The doctor told him that it’s Jesus, the poor man simply smiled and told the doctor, Now I know why you’re so helpful and caring.
In the gospel Jesus tells us that we must become the salt of the earth that gives meaning to the lives of our fellowmen. We must not become tasteless salt that does not give meaning anymore. Is it possible for us to become useless/tasteless salt of this world? Of course it is, this becomes a reality if we are uncaring, indifferent and numb to those who are in need.
Why is there unfair distribution of wealth in this world? The rich and influential keeps getting richer and the poor are getting poorer. This is for the reason that many rich are unconcerned for the welfare of the poor. They are only concerned for their own wellbeing. There are even powerful politicians who without conscience steal money allocated for the benefit of the poor.
Jesus tells us that we are to become the light of this world. What does this mean to you and me? What does this indicate to you as a father, mother, son, daughter, brother or sister? This means that we must always become a positive influence, a good role model and a character formator.
We must be somebody who brings the light of Jesus to our fellowmen. And we do these virtuous actions not for us to carve our personal glory. But we do these moral acts for the greater glory of God.
Have you already become salt and
light to your fellowmen? – Marino J. Dasmarinas
Sunday, June 05, 2022
1Reflection for Monday June 6, Memorial of the Blessed Virgin Mary Mother of the Church: John 19:25-34
After this, aware that everything was now finished, in order that the Scripture might be fulfilled, Jesus said, “I thirst.” There was a vessel filled with common wine. So they put a sponge soaked in wine on a sprig of hyssop and put it up to his mouth. When Jesus had taken the wine, he said, “It is finished.” And bowing his head, he handed over the spirit.
Now since it was preparation day,
in order that the bodies might not remain on the cross on the sabbath, for the
sabbath day of that week was a solemn one, the Jews asked Pilate that their
legs be broken and they be taken down.
So the soldiers came and broke the
legs of the first and then of the other one who
was crucified with Jesus. But when they came to Jesus and saw that he was
already dead, they did not break his legs, but one soldier thrust his lance
into his side, and immediately Blood and water flowed out.
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How do
you feel after finishing a worthy undertaking?
You
feel good, fulfilled, and triumphant—no matter how challenging the journey was.
This must have been what Jesus felt when He uttered His final words on the
cross: “It is finished.” It was not a cry of defeat, but a cry of victory. At
last, the suffering is over. At last, the mission is fulfilled. At last, love
has triumphed.
At that
sacred moment, Jesus had crushed the voice of the enemy who relentlessly
whispered to Him to turn away from His mission. He silenced every temptation
and overcame every obstacle meant to hinder His salvific work. Through His
obedience and sacrifice, He redeemed us—sinful humanity—from the bondage of sin.
Yet, as
for us, our mission is not yet finished. We are still on this earthly
pilgrimage, still walking the narrow path that leads to eternal life. We
continue to battle the many temptations and spiritual forces that whisper in
our ears, trying to lead us astray from God's grace.
So we
ask ourselves: What must we do so that one day, we too can say with
conviction, “It is finished”?
We must
remain faithful to the Lord until the end of our days. We must persevere in
prayer, resist sin, and walk in the light of Christ, no matter how dark the
road may seem. And when our time in this world comes to a close, may we look
back and say: “It is finished.”
Not
because we were perfect, but because we eventually repented. Because we did not
allow the enemy to take even an inch of space in our hearts. Because we
followed Jesus until the very end.
When the sun sets on our earthly life, will we be able to say, “It is finished,” not with fear, but with peace? Will we be able to say: It is finished, Lord. I have fought the good fight. I have kept the faith. I have defeated the demons that sought to take me away from you. I am Yours, now and forever. — Marino J. Dasmarinas
Thursday, June 02, 2022
Reflection for Sunday June 5, Solemnity of Pentecost: John 20:19-23
The disciples rejoiced when they saw the Lord. Jesus said to them again, “Peace be with you. As the Father has sent me, so I send you.” And when he had said this, he breathed on them and said to them, “Receive the Holy Spirit. Whose sins you forgive are forgiven them, and whose sins you retain are retained.”
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Reflection:
An old man was wondering how he could have an awareness of the presence of the Holy Spirit in his life. He was often murmuring to himself, “I’m already old but I still don’t feel the presence of the Holy Spirit.” This old man is not alone in this predicament because many of us have no awareness of the presence of the Holy Spirit.
What is the secret for us to become aware that the Holy Spirit is alive and working in our life? The secret to unleash the presence of the Holy Spirit is a prayerful life. Is not an intermittent prayer life but a life disposed to daily prayer. Perhaps we can allocate five to ten minutes every day for prayers and meditations. Then slowly but surely the Holy Spirit will manifest its presence within us.
In our first reading we read about the disciples and the Blessed Mother who were together in one place. What were they doing there? They were praying (Acts 1:14) until God the Holy Spirit blessed them with its indwelling presence in their lives (Acts 2:1-4).
The same occurrence happened in our gospel. The disciples were in one room because of their fear of the Jews and they were praying. Then suddenly Jesus appeared to them. He greeted them with peace; afterwards He breathed on them and gave them the presence of the Holy Spirit.
If we want to have an awareness of the presence of the Holy Spirit there’s no other way for us to do but to have a regular prayerful life. So that we would be blessed by its presence and gifts such as: Wisdom, Understanding, Counsel, Strength, Knowledge and Fear of the Lord (Isaiah 11:2).
Are you already aware of the presence and movement of the Holy Spirit in your life? – Marino J. Dasmarinas
Ang Mabuting Balita para sa Linggo Hunyo 5, Linggo ng Pentecostes: Juan 20:19-23
Wednesday, June 01, 2022
1Reflection for June 4, Saturday of the Seventh Week of Easter: John 21:20-25
It is this disciple who testifies to these
things and has written them, and we know that his testimony is true. There are
also many other things that Jesus did but if these were to be described
individually I do not think the whole world would contain the books that would
be written.
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Reflection:
Are you sometimes too inquisitive about things that do not even concern you?
In today’s Gospel, Peter shows a similar tendency—he becomes too curious about something that is not his concern. He asks Jesus about the beloved disciple, and we may wonder why. What was going through Peter’s mind at that moment?
We may never know for sure. But one thing is clear: Peter was not fully focused on Jesus’ personal call for him to “Follow Me.”
Like Peter, we too can sometimes lose focus. When we decide to follow Jesus, we are called to fix our eyes on Him—not on the lives of others in the parish, or even on the affairs of our neighbors. Rather, we are invited to reflect on our own journey, our own family, and the life God has entrusted to us.
Many conflicts and misunderstandings begin when we allow ourselves to be overly involved in other people’s lives. Gossip, judgment, and comparisons only distract us from the peace and grace the Lord offers.
So today, let us resolve to focus on our own walk with Christ. Let us allow others the space to live their lives in peace, free from our meddling or unsolicited opinions.
Instead of wasting time speaking about others or prying into matters that do not help us grow spiritually, let us use our energy to deepen our relationship with Jesus. Let us spend more time in prayer, in quiet service, and in seeking how we can faithfully and silently follow the Lord—just as He calls us to do.
May we always remember: Jesus does not compare us with others. He simply says to each of us, “Follow Me.” – Marino J. Dasmarinas
Reflection for Friday June 3, Saint Charles Lwanga and Companions, Martyrs: John 21:15-19
He said to him, "Yes, Lord; you know that I love you." He said to him, "Tend my sheep." 17 He said to him the third time, "Simon, son of John, do you love me?" Peter was grieved because he said to him the third time, "Do you love me?" And he said to him, "Lord, you know everything; you know that I love you."
Jesus said to him, "Feed my sheep. 18
Truly, truly, I say to you, when you were young, you girded yourself and walked
where you would; but when you are old, you will stretch out your hands, and
another will gird you and carry you where you do not wish to go." 19 (This
he said to show by what death he was to glorify God.) And after this he said to
him, "Follow me."
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Reflection:
A young man told a young woman: I love you. The woman said to the man: Marry me to prove your declaration of love. So he married her and they lived as husband and wife only to separate after a few years. Why did they separate? For the reason that they were not able to withstand the turbulence and trials of married life.
Perhaps, I love you; is the most abused phrase today; we often say it without thinking how profound and meaningful this phrase is. This is the reason why when married life is tested by turbulence, the phrase I love you now becomes I don’t love you anymore. Then after a period of time it deteriorates to become I want to separate from you.
In our gospel for today, Jesus wants us to know that the phrase I love you is always loaded with accountability and responsibility. This is the reason why when Jesus asked Peter, Do you love me (three times!)? HE attached it with threefold responsibilities (Feed my lambs, Tend my sheep, Feed my sheep).
Let us pause and think for we may have
loosely said the phase I love you without taking into consideration its
responsibility and accountability. Let us pause and think for we may have
loosely said the phase I love you to simply satisfy our carnal desires. –
Marino J. Dasmarinas
Reflection for June 2, Thursday of the Seventh Week of Easter: John 17:20-26
Father, they are your gift to me. I wish
that where I am they also may be with me, that they may see my glory that you
gave me, because you loved me before the foundation of the world. Righteous
Father, the world also does not know you, but I know you, and they know that
you sent me. I made known to them your name and I will make it known, that the
love with which you loved me may be in them and I in them.”
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Reflection:
What would happen if the love of Jesus is present in a family? There is unity and there is an unbreakable bond that exists no matter what happen inside that family. On the other hand what would happen if the love of God is not present in a family? There would be disunity, human created problems and dysfunctionality which would eventually lead to the disintegration of the family.
Jesus love for God and God’s love for Jesus is the only love that can bind and unify members of family. It’s a love that is humble and persevering; no wonder Jesus remained faithful to HIS mission of salvation. Jesus humbled Himself even if HE is equal to God and He persevered to fulfill HIS salvific mission even at the cost of HIS life.
If spouses want their family to remain united in love forever they must also have the same humility and perseverance. The children should have an active prayer life taught by their parents and anchored on their wisdom filled shepherding as well. Thus, it will not fall to the trap of the devil who always incite for the dismemberment of the family.
Let us reflect if we have the love of
Jesus and God inside our own family. Let us reflect if we breathe humility and
perseverance for the sake of the wellbeing of our children. – Marino J.
Dasmarinas
Ang Mabuting Balita: Hunyo 2 Huwebes sa Ika-7 na Linggo ng Pasko ng Pagkabuhay: Juan 17:20-26
Ang karangalang ibinigay mo sa akin ay ibinigay ko sa kanila upang sila'y maging ganap na isa, gaya nating iisa; ako'y nasa kanila at ikaw ay nasa akin, upang lubusan silang maging isa. At sa gayon, makikilala ng sanlibutan na sinugo mo ako, at sila'y inibig mo katulad ng pag-ibig mo sa akin.
"Ama, nais kong makasama sa aking kinaroroonan ang mga binigay mo sa akin, upang mamasdan nila ang karangalang bigay mo sa akin, sapagkat inibig mo na ako bago pa nilikha ang sanlibutan. Makatarungang Ama, hindi ka nakikilala ng sanlibutan, ngunit nakikilala kita, at nalalaman ng mga ibinigay mo sa akin na ikaw ang nagsugo sa akin. Ipinakilala kita sa kanila, at ipakikilala pa, upang ang pag-ibig mo sa akin ay sumapuso nila at ako nama'y sumakanila."
Monday, May 30, 2022
Reflection for Wednesday June 1, Memorial of Saint Justin, Martyr: John 17:11b-19
But now I am coming to you. I speak this in the world so that they may share my joy completely. I gave them your word, and the world hated them, because they do not belong to the world any more than I belong to the world. I do not ask that you take them out of the world but that you keep them from the Evil One.
They do not belong to the world any more
than I belong to the world. Consecrate them in the truth. Your word is truth.
As you sent me into the world so I sent them into the world. And I consecrate
myself for them so that they also may be consecrated in truth.
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Reflection:
The story is told about a husband and wife who wanted to adhere to the teachings of the church that marriage is for life. So they thought of ways on how they would go about it. In their reflection they thought of making prayer as an agent that would bind them together until they breathe their last. To make a long story short they made prayer part of their married life. Thus, they remained married until the end.
As Jesus was about to be arrested, He prayed to God for His disciples. That they may continually be united as one in their mission, united for the reason that they would not succeed without unity. Isn’t this true also inside a family and married life? A family needs unity for it to succeed, what are the fruits of unity inside the family/marriage? The fruits are: Humility, Honesty, Forgiveness and many more positive attributes.
Every family/marriage that succeeds spiritually is a praying family and a praying family is a united family. Let us therefore not devalue the powerful miracle of prayer inside the family/marriage. Because the family that prays as one would remain united until the end.
Is prayer already part of the culture of
our life, family and marriage? – Marino J. Dasmarinas
Reflection for Tuesday May 31, Feast of the Visitation of the Blessed Virgin Mary: Luke 1:39-56
And Mary said:
“My soul proclaims the greatness of the Lord; my spirit rejoices in God my Savior for he has looked with favor on his lowly servant. From this day all generations will call me blessed: the Almighty has done great things for me and holy is his Name. He has mercy on those who fear him in every generation. He has shown the strength of his arm, and has scattered the proud in their conceit. He has cast down the mighty from their thrones, and has lifted up the lowly. He has filled the hungry with good things, and the rich he has sent away empty. He has come to the help of his servant Israel for he has remembered his promise of mercy, the promise he made to our fathers, to Abraham and his children forever.”
Mary remained with her about three months
and then returned to her home.
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Reflection:
How does it feel to be visited by the Blessed Mother? Nobody of us knows about it, however; in our gospel we read about the reaction of her cousin Elizabeth. When Elizabeth heard Mary’s greeting, the infant leaped in her womb, and Elizabeth, filled with the Holy Spirit, cried out in a loud voice and said, “Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb (Luke 1:39-42).
Elizabeth’s humility is very evident through her acknowledgement of the presence of the Blessed Mother. Same as with Mary’s humility through her acknowledgement of the Lord’s majesty and greatness.
The lesson that we can derive from this visit of Mary to her cousin Elizabeth is the Holy Spirit dwells within the humble. Mary and her cousin Elizabeth lived and gave a human face to this humility. And through their humility the Holy Spirit dwelt upon them.
Do you also want to feel the presence of
God the Holy Spirit in your life? - Marino J. Dasmarinas










