James and John, the sons of
Zebedee, came to Jesus and said to him, "Teacher, we want you to do for us
whatever we ask of you." He replied, "What do you wish me to do for
you?" They answered him, "Grant that in your glory we may sit one at
your right and the other at your left." Jesus said to them, "You
do not know what you are asking.
Can you drink the cup that I
drink or be baptized with the baptism with which I am baptized?" They said
to him, "We can." Jesus said to them, "The cup that I drink, you
will drink, and with the baptism with which I am baptized, you will be
baptized; but to sit at my right or at my left is not mine to give but is for
those for whom it has been prepared." When the ten heard this, they became
indignant at James and John.
Jesus summoned them and said to
them, "You know that those who are recognized as rulers over the Gentiles
lord it over them, and their great ones make their authority over them felt.
But it shall not be so among you. Rather, whoever wishes to be great among you
will be your servant; whoever wishes to be first among you will be the slave of
all.
For the Son of Man did not come
to be served but to serve and to give his life as a ransom for many."
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Reflection:
The story is told about a young
man who saw the arrival of their bishop in their parish church. The young man
was so overwhelmed by the respect that was being given by the parishioners to
the bishop. Many were bowing to him; some were holding his right hand so that
they could put it on their forehead for them to be blessed. Others
were lining up to kiss the bishop’s ring. The young man was so impressed by
what he saw that he said to his parents, I want to become a bishop someday so
that I will also be admired and respected.
James and John were also after
respect and admiration this is the reason why they asked Jesus if they could
sit beside Him in His kingdom. They wanted those who would see them to be
in awe by the influence that they have. Imagine sitting beside the Lord,
it is a badge of honor; it is something that will make any believer proud. But
Jesus rebuked them by saying, “You do not know what you are asking.”
Why do we aspire for respect
and admiration? Do we want it because it enhances our self-worth and ego? Do we
want it for the reason that we want others to look up to us and perceive us as
someone who is influential? It is all of the above and more, whether we admit
it or not many of us are craving for self-centered honor to be bestowed upon us
for we hunger and love it.
But in Jesus’ viewpoint
self-centered honor, egotism, and every kind of action for us to be adored and
exalted amounts to nothing. Because Jesus himself shunned all of these
exaltation, Jesus avoided it like a plague. What is important for Jesus is to
follow the will of God and that is none other than humble service to His
people. This eventually led Him to suffer and eventually sacrifice His very own
life on the cross.
We ask ourselves now: Why do we
aspire to be great, to be popular and to be admired. The answer is no brainer:
Many of us simply want to increase our temporal human value, we want to feed
our hungry egos. But all of these are self-promotion which does not count
in the eyes of the Lord. – Marino J. Dasmarinas