Now this is how the birth of Jesus Christ came about. When his mother Mary was betrothed to Joseph, but before they lived together, she was found with child through the Holy Spirit. Joseph her husband, since he was a righteous man, yet unwilling to expose her to shame, decided to divorce her quietly.
Such was his intention when, behold, the angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream and said, “Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary your wife into your home. For it is through the Holy Spirit that this child has been conceived in her.
She will bear a son and you are to name him Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins. When Joseph awoke, he did as the angel of the Lord had commanded him and took his wife into his home.
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Reflection:
Are you obedient to the will of God?
When Joseph discovered that Mary was pregnant, he decided to quietly separate from her—quietly, because that was his character. He was a quiet and humble man. As much as possible, Joseph did not want to create a scene that could result in Mary’s being ostracized by her townspeople.
Perhaps the devil was already insidiously trying to provoke Joseph to do something that would humiliate Mary. But Joseph calmly resisted whatever evil machinations the devil had. He overcame them by listening to what the angel told him to do.
Thus, Joseph faithfully loved and protected his family. By his act of obedience to the will of God, we can safely conclude that Joseph loved Mary deeply.
Many fathers today easily give up when their marriage is tested by fire. They quickly succumb when tempted by the devil, no longer listening to the voice of God, who always calls them to uphold the sanctity of marriage and family life.
Let us be inspired by the life of Saint Joseph—his humility, his obedience to the voice of God, and his unconditional love and protection for his wife, Mary, and his child, Jesus.
Saint Joseph, Patron Saint of Fathers, Patron Saint of Families, and Patron Saint of a Happy Death, we beseech you to always pray for us. —Marino J. Dasmarinas