15 When they had finished breakfast, Jesus
said to Simon Peter, "Simon, son of John, do you love me more than
these?" He said to him, "Yes, Lord; you know that I love you."
He said to him, "Feed my lambs." 16 A second time he said to him,
"Simon, son of John, do you love me?"
He said to him, "Yes, Lord; you know
that I love you." He said to him, "Tend my sheep." 17 He said to
him the third time, "Simon, son of John, do you love me?" Peter was
grieved because he said to him the third time, "Do you love me?" And
he said to him, "Lord, you know everything; you know that I love
you."
Jesus said to him, "Feed my sheep. 18
Truly, truly, I say to you, when you were young, you girded yourself and walked
where you would; but when you are old, you will stretch out your hands, and
another will gird you and carry you where you do not wish to go." 19 (This
he said to show by what death he was to glorify God.) And after this he said to
him, "Follow me."
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Reflection:
A young man told a young woman: I love
you. The woman said to the man: Marry me to prove your declaration of love. So
he married her and they lived as husband and wife only to separate after a few
years. Why did they separate? For the reason that they were not able to
withstand the turbulence and trials of married life.
Perhaps, I love you; is the most abused
phrase today; we often say it without thinking how profound and meaningful this
phrase is. This is the reason why when married life is tested by turbulence,
the phrase I love you now becomes I don’t love you anymore. Then after a period
of time it deteriorates to become I want to separate from you.
In our gospel for today, Jesus wants us to
know that the phrase I love you is always loaded with accountability and
responsibility. This is the reason why when Jesus asked Peter, Do you love me
(three times!)? HE attached it with threefold responsibilities (Feed my lambs,
Tend my sheep, Feed my sheep).
Let us pause and think for we may have
loosely said the phase I love you without taking into consideration its
responsibility and accountability. Let us pause and think for we may have
loosely said the phase I love you to simply satisfy our carnal desires. –
Marino J. Dasmarinas