How can
you say to your brother, 'Brother, let me remove that splinter in your eye,'
when you do not even notice the wooden beam in your own eye? You
hypocrite! Remove the wooden beam from your eye first; then you will
see clearly to remove the splinter in your brother's eye.
"A
good tree does not bear rotten fruit, nor does a rotten tree bear good fruit.
For every tree is known by its own fruit. For people do not pick figs from
thornbushes, nor do they gather grapes from brambles. A good person out of the
store of goodness in his heart produces good, but an evil person out of a store
of evil produces evil; for from the fullness of the heart the mouth
speaks."
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Reflection:
A woman
saw a handsome man. The handsome man sensing that the woman was looking at him
looked as well to the woman. Their eyes met and she immediately fell in love
with the handsome man. After a few weeks they got married, but two months after
their marriage the domineering and arrogant behavior of the man started to
unravel.
Are you
easily swayed by outward appearance? For example, you saw a handsome man or a
beautiful woman and you were immediately attracted to that
person. An attractive outward appearance is very deceiving. Why? For
the simple reason that we will not fully know the true character of the person
based on what we see.
What we
see is simply a façade it can be faked. The exterior is not the true color or
true character of the person. The true color or character lies hidden in the
heart of the person. And we can only discover this hidden character once we get
to know the person better.
Many
young people today are easily hooked to this trap of outward
appearance. This is what attracts them to their future wife or husband.
However, after marriage the hidden, dark and devious character of
their spouse will begin to show.
This
also applies in relationship concerning friendship. We must not make friends
with someone simply because the person is rich or influential. We should be
friends with a person because of the good character of that person. It doesn’t
matter if the person is poor what is important is the character and the
goodness that emanates from that person’s heart.
In our
first reading according to the book of Sirach it says: one's speech disclose
the bent of one's mind (Sirach 27:6). And in our gospel Jesus tells us: “From
the fullness of the heart the mouth speaks (Luke 6:45).”
Hence,
what are we going to do so that we would not fall into this false
impression based on the exterior appearance? We have to know the person better
by way of speaking to that person. By carefully discerning his/her utterances
or the words that he/she speaks.
Because
what he/she speaks comes from the heart and what originates from the heart is
the measure of a person’s true character. – Marino J.
Dasmarinas
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